Cortez
Tough but Fair
I do hope you have a good instructor. Dutch Warmbloods are purpose bred horses and if he's been professionally ridden up until now it may take a bit of an effort to make him into the typical amateur's pet.
Thank you, I completely understand. My soft spot for them comes from my wonderful Nan having them as I grew up and she always let me ride them when I went to stay. I was a bolshy teenager then with no fear and alot more confidence. But I am really lucky that I have a lot of good people now, who are able to watch and advise me if we can time it right, and I also have a determination of steel to have a wonderful and respectful relationship, whatever it takesI do hope you have a good instructor. Dutch Warmbloods are purpose bred horses and if he's been professionally ridden up until now it may take a bit of an effort to make him into the typical amateur's pet.
Thank you, I completely understand. My soft spot for them comes from my wonderful Nan having them as I grew up and she always let me ride them when I went to stay. I was a bolshy teenager then with no fear and alot more confidence. But I am really lucky that I have a lot of good people now, who are able to watch and advise me if we can time it right, and I also have a determination of steel to have a wonderful and respectful relationship, whatever it takes
Ha ha I like that! 🤣Whatever relationship you end up with will depend on who you and the horse "are" and whether you are suited, just like any other relationship. You can of course influence and shape that, but sometimes horses are just not the right fit, for whatever reason. I've had many horses through the years, and some I've just not got along with. Now, I used to be a professional rider so had to ride whatever I was presented with, but some horses are just not that pleasant to live with. Time and training will tell you as you go along, but don't be afraid to ultimately conclude that you may prefer a different type of horse. Horses are not like husbands (although you can trade those in too )
Thank you!! I like this and can do that for sure 😀 I will let you know how I get on over the next 6 weeks or so ðŸ™ðŸ»if the lunging helps why not lunge for a bit longer to get his fidgets sorted before trying to mount. if he is still fidgety and moves around, lunge him again and keep doing the same until he stands at the block, as soon as he does stand, praise him let him stand for as long as he wants to but as soon as he moves walk him round again and back to the block, dont try and get on just go through the exercise again and again. if he isnt getting better i would lunge again and dont give up.. you need to be patient and very persistant to get through to him that you are going to insist that he stands at the block...when you get success, praise him and put him away...do the same beginning the next day and if he stands ,get on and go for a fun hack,,, good luck
This sounds great! Did she walk up to it in a straight line and did you have something else the other side? He moves across as soon as I say “stand†and his rear goes outwards 🙈 I am not opposed to treats, and am asking him to stand at the block each day and ending on a good note when he’s let me reach over and stroke his neck, this is not always easy and he doesn’t move over toward the block. Not sure why he just seems to hate it!
Thank you!! I like this and can do that for sure 😀 I will let you know how I get on over the next 6 weeks or so ðŸ™ðŸ»
Just another thought - and I know you heart will sink, sorry I had another mare who always told me when her saddle was uncomfortable by moving away from the mounting block bas I stood on it. I would get your new saddle assessed by a 2nd opinion, tbh.
that’s what I was hoping the clicker training would help with. He’s just so used to moving off straight away, I am thinking I could see if a leg up makes it any different, lunging him first definitely takes some of his edge off and getting on is easier by about 10 minutes......maybe this will just come as we do it more?
This advice is absolutely amazing, thank you! This is my very personal journey and I adore him, he has a very loving personality sometimes but also can be silly when super excited. Ground handling lessons sound exactly what I need, I am based in east anglia, Ipswich area so if anyone had any trainers they can recommend I would really like to hear about them.
I’ve cut his hard feed down, and took out the Alfa a he was having as he was completely nutty on it. The only reason I’m still feeding something is that I need to get some weight on him, he’s a little ribby but again I’m super happy for any suggestions. He’s on dengie hi fi, fast fibre and micronised linseed, and I have put hay in his field, is this too much?
Thank you again, to know it’s more common than I think helps more than you know ðŸ™ðŸ»