starry23
Well-Known Member
Yesterday morning my horse was put to sleep. I know it was the right decision at the right time for her.
I just feel so lost and alone without her, she was my first and only horse and we had been through so much the past 3 1/2 years. I wish it didn't have to end after so little time.
This morning I went into work (boss wasn't best pleased when I phoned in sick yesterday and I couldn't face being made to feel guilty for phoning in again) but whenever people asked me how I was I just burst into tears so my boss sent me home (he said he didn't realise how bad it was, I don't think he realised she'd actually been PTS as he was very apologetic).
I have slept for most of the day but now I am wide awake, can't stop crying for long and I just don't know what to do. Sitting about doing nothing much isn't helping but I can't face going out in public and bursting into tears randomly.
I always went to the yard straight after work and spent a good couple of hours (at least) there or with friends doing various horsey things. I have no idea what else I can do with myself. With the cost of actually having her put down I cannot afford to do anything else like join a gym, go for my singing lessons, many things I think would distract me basically. Sitting at home by myself just makes everything feel so raw and real but I don't even feel like I have the energy to get up and go for a walk.
I have a lot of people who have said they are there for me if I need them and I'm so appreciative but I just don't think there is anything that anyone could do to help me right now mainly because I have absolutely no idea what will help. I have the offer of a couple of horses to ride or just spend time with generally but the thought of seeing any horse right now just makes me cry. I still want horses to be a big part of my life but I need to give myself a bit of time.
There's not really much point to this post but I just felt I needed to get this out. Please tell me I'm not the only one to feel like this!? Thanks for reading.
I just feel so lost and alone without her, she was my first and only horse and we had been through so much the past 3 1/2 years. I wish it didn't have to end after so little time.
This morning I went into work (boss wasn't best pleased when I phoned in sick yesterday and I couldn't face being made to feel guilty for phoning in again) but whenever people asked me how I was I just burst into tears so my boss sent me home (he said he didn't realise how bad it was, I don't think he realised she'd actually been PTS as he was very apologetic).
I have slept for most of the day but now I am wide awake, can't stop crying for long and I just don't know what to do. Sitting about doing nothing much isn't helping but I can't face going out in public and bursting into tears randomly.
I always went to the yard straight after work and spent a good couple of hours (at least) there or with friends doing various horsey things. I have no idea what else I can do with myself. With the cost of actually having her put down I cannot afford to do anything else like join a gym, go for my singing lessons, many things I think would distract me basically. Sitting at home by myself just makes everything feel so raw and real but I don't even feel like I have the energy to get up and go for a walk.
I have a lot of people who have said they are there for me if I need them and I'm so appreciative but I just don't think there is anything that anyone could do to help me right now mainly because I have absolutely no idea what will help. I have the offer of a couple of horses to ride or just spend time with generally but the thought of seeing any horse right now just makes me cry. I still want horses to be a big part of my life but I need to give myself a bit of time.
There's not really much point to this post but I just felt I needed to get this out. Please tell me I'm not the only one to feel like this!? Thanks for reading.