OMG... I am Giving Up (long rant. sorry!!)

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I worked out the other day - probably shouldn't have - that since 2007 we had over 100 vets bills totaling more than £15,000 (thank god £10,000 was covered by insurance) and spent nearly £5,000 on saddles before even considering the monthly costs to keep both of them... :eek: :eek: Now sadly all I have to show for this is a box of ashes and two sets of shoes as they were both PTS this summer :(. I didn't give up though and got a new horse on loan. AND this is where the fun begins AGAIN....

So he arrives at the beginning of October; 36 hours after arrival he can't put any weight on his hind leg and then the poor boy gets stung by a hornet at the same time so can hardly stand up and doesn't know what to do to get away from the pain of the sting :( So a week off for the abscess in his foot to drain and heal and to allow the hornet sting swelling to subside (saddle area so couldn't ride :rolleyes: ). So that's all sorted and we get back on the road again and start working him again.

A month later he comes in lame from the field :rolleyes: - I think sod it, I'm not getting the vet, I'll just give him some danillon for a few days and then see how he is. 3 days later he was sound, but his fetlock still a bit swollen so I called the vet and made an appointment for that afternoon. Meanwhile that morning he was being shod. So I come home from work and whilst getting him ready for the vet I notice that he's crippled in front after shoeing :eek:

...Vet comes, he's so lame in front he can't tell if he's sound behind. Takes shoe off and cannot find anything, but he's sounder on soft ground. Then I asked the vet to check his back as I wasn't convinced that was quite right - he nearly double-barreled the vet when he manipulated his back. :(

SOOOO, I get the physio to come out on the Tuesday following (Oh and he's sound in front by this point ;) ). He is very sore especially in his shoulders due to the lameness. He is sore through his back - not saddle related - and basically I am now back on a regime of 3 weeks walking and then re-assessment by the physio.

OMG :mad:, sorry but you have to be having a laugh! We do everything by the book and our horses have regular physio/massage to keep them in good shape, teeth done, vet checks, saddle checks every few months and basically the best care going; but still we get all this *****. He's only 4 - an old 4 as he is 5 in Feb - so should be strong enough to be exercised 3/4 times a week - once in the school for no more than 20mins at a time, and then longer hacks, but even that seems too much.

Rant over... I think it's time to give up - anyone else agree!?? :o ;)

PS, I hate hacking, love competing and schooling so 3 weeks hacking only - great! :rolleyes:
 
Poor you!!!

There's a horse on the farm next to us that has never been touched for six years. Its nearly 30, and has madethe farmer's wife a fortune over the years breeding lovley foals that were all sold for hefty sums as future eventers. The old mare lives out on 30 acres with the cows. On really cold days they get carrots and haylage big bales in the field. Nothing ever goes wrong! Its not right!!!
 
Poor Jess1, you've had a very tough and unfair time by anyones standards - I do feel for you. What breed/type is your new horse?
 
Oh no! That really is bad luck. I hope it's nothing serious and after the 3 boring weeks all the bad luck can be over.
I have also had a couple of bad years - keep telling myself that I've had all my bad luck now for the next 30 years... then something else happens!
And as for totting up how much you spend on horses... don't ever do it! not worth it!!!
 
I know what you mean, especially now. Given my horse the best of everything through sick times and good times which has obviously cost a fortune.

Then he kicks me, breaks my leg and i'm in full plaster, ridiculous pain, non weight bearing for 6 weeks then physio.

Giving up? Yes! Worth it? No! (at this moment anyway)
 
I know what you mean. We have a lady near us that does sod all to her lot, breeds but won't pay to scan etc just keeps her lot going and sells for good money. I try to breed a foal from my mare so while she's slowing down I can work on her baby, everything is done by the book and I lost the foal, I was gutted.
It seems to be the way it goes, chin up and keep going, there are nice horses out there, go and get a good one
 
Thanks guys!

I look at my friends out hunting and think to myself... I wish I could just drag my horse in from the field, get on it and go hunting for the day after not having ridden it for weeks. Or not jump it for 6 months and then decide to take it to a huntertrial at the weekend. All these horses are fine too, well they are at least to the eyes of those that just get on and do it! To others some problems - few and far between it has to be said - are blatantly obvious, but they get away with it, the horse keeps going and they never know any better - I wish I knew how they did that!!

I just couldn't bring myself to do it though. Half the fun in having horses is all the preparatory work before the competitions etc! It does make you wonder sometimes if caring too much sometimes isn't productive, I mean I competed twice this year, before that not since October 2008 when i competed 3 times and before that not since 2006 (the only full BE season I have ever had) due to injuries which some people would have told me to ignore. I couldn't do it though as I knew the horses and knew they weren't just pulling a fast one - I knew there was something wrong and it was major too!

I can't believe how much bad luck there is around but equally how ppl just get away with it too!

Thatsmygirl, that's so sad :( sorry to hear it! I suppose that is one thing I was lucky with - I managed to breed a lovely little foal, but he bloody goes and develops OCD in his hock :mad: and has to have it operated on and I haven't heard how it went :(

And Teddybully, that's awful :( and how rude of him lol! Seriously though, I hope you get better soon and he has learnt his lesson!!

And finally, Iceni, he's Arab X Takehener. He is a woss, but what can yo do sometimes. :confused:
 
Poor you Jess I know how you feel my gelding went lame when he was 5 his not been right since, he was supposed to be my show horse, my horse before him I had for 13 years she was lame with arthritis a year after I bought her so I am gutted as I am back to plodding round the forest, instead of interesting schooling. chin up girl your not alone xx
 
J1 - I know how it feels!! I had a mare on loan, lovely, but had no saddle for the first few months, then when I got it, she got an abscess, then when that was sorted, her feet need rebuilding from all the work the farriers done re:abscess!!
In the end, I gave her back, as she was costing me a small fortune and I wasn't able to do anything!!
 
Hun! It sounds like you've had a rough time, but don't give up! I'm just exiting a spell like this (and the horses weren't insured for vets fees at the time :eek: ) and I'm so glad I stuck it out! Don't blame yourself, keep trucking, all will come right. Promise! x
 
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