Celtic Fringe
Well-Known Member
The turning point with my horse was when I took him away on an 'Intelligent Horsemanship' clinic for a weekend. We tried a 'join up', lots of work in-hand and a little ridden work. This really helped us bond and accept each other and when we got home he stood at the field gate with me rather than stomping off to join his herd. We moved yards shortly afterwards and he settled right away. He has made me cry and laugh in the years since then but this was a key point in our relationship. It isn't for everyone - one of my horses would be utterly mortified if I even tried to 'send him away' (as in a 'join up') but as other people have said a good instructor who can help with some in-hand work AND translate that into your ridden work so that everything is consistent and understandable for the horse might be a good idea. Good luck!