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I have working line GSDs that are more similar to Malinois in temperament and drive than to show line or pet bred GSDs. I always feed them separate from one another and don’t interfere while they eat. This does not preclude me from removing anything from their mouth. My male did resource guard bones and food when he was younger but I didn’t make an issue out if it. I would add higher value food (ham chicken beef etc) to his bowl but never took it away. He would be fine now if I did need to take the dish away before he’d finished or if I need to take something out of his mouth.
I have also used a portion of their meal for training but never the entire lot. When they get their dinner they can just relax and enjoy it.
 

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When I was a kid we were never allowed near the dogs when they were eating, I was never left alone with them when younger, we also knew not to mither them if sleeping/tired and to never approach a strange dog without the owners permission. I dont know if that says more about dogs then, or people now or vice versa :D


I think it says that your parents were very sensible, there is a vast difference between having the adult, who is in charge of everything in the house, move the dog's dish, or add or remove something and having children allowed to pester the dog. I rather think that the mumsnet dog is getting mixed messages from all the different people who are involved in 'training' it.
 

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I think it says that your parents were very sensible, there is a vast difference between having the adult, who is in charge of everything in the house, move the dog's dish, or add or remove something and having children allowed to pester the dog. I rather think that the mumsnet dog is getting mixed messages from all the different people who are involved in 'training' it.

agree but our dogs were far from well trained or behaved. It’s an interesting ethical debate (for me anyway) as to what we can/should expect our animals to put up with and what we expect behaviour wise.
eg some seem to think dogs should put up with everything we want them too, but is this fair or realistic even with ‘training’? Same with horses.
 

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Mum tells me that we were never left alone with the dog. I suspect mum wouldn’t risk the dog rather than us ?

Wise mum. I cringe every time I see one of those toddler/baby photos with a dog laying alongside.
I have no maternal instinct, I feel bad for the dog being put at risk even while acknowledging some dogs would rather die than hurt the child.
 

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Oh hai ;)

I hand feed most of my dogs' kibble allowance out on walks, in training or feed it on the track until they retire from competition.
Engagement is very important to me and food from the person for attention gives great engagement.
I'm very happy with it as a training method and so are most of the people I know.
Do it, don't do it, but it works for a lot of people, it's not witchcraft.
It doesn't generally make them resource guardy, quite the opposite, although I like mine to have a lot of possession as well as being able to share and that takes a bit of working out with young dogs.

Buuut the handfeeding is a red herring. This is the wrong dog for a young family/inexperienced (with these breeds) owners. It's not training, it's not decades of dog ownership and being sensible, it's the fact that nothing prepares the average pet dog owner that these are (generally) high drive/high nerve animals who love biting - and that's not compatible with most households.
A lot of sports handlers and police forces who switched from GSDs have switched back because it is actually quite hard to get a good one.
One person I know has quit private pet dog training as a business, as a local 'breeder' has flooded the area with crap Malis and they were fed up with turning up to houses where frustrated, under-stimulated dogs had eaten the kitchen units.
Another called me the other day looking for a catchpole. On behalf of an owner on their second (first PTS with aggression).
Dog started biting through venting frustration at other dogs (owner was closest thing to bite) and because it wasn't stopped the first time, it has now learned that biting gets it out of anything it doesn't like and owner couldn't get it out of the car the other day.

The ones you see on YouTube are the good ones. That flash? Pizzazz? Speed? That comes through nerve. Which is great for cool videos and some sports but not so much for a pet dog.
 
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I saw a video yesterday of a 6month old cane corso, eating from its bowl, in its crate, with a tiny child/baby in the crate with it. The reasoning of the owner being if the dog was used to kids at feeding time from being a puppy that it would grow up being good and reliable around children and food. Now I’m not a dog expert, but my tiny brain cells tell me that this is not a great plan.
 

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I saw a video yesterday of a 6month old cane corso, eating from its bowl, in its crate, with a tiny child/baby in the crate with it. The reasoning of the owner being if the dog was used to kids at feeding time from being a puppy that it would grow up being good and reliable around children and food. Now I’m not a dog expert, but my tiny brain cells tell me that this is not a great plan.

For ? sake :oops::eek:
 
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I saw a video yesterday of a 6month old cane corso, eating from its bowl, in its crate, with a tiny child/baby in the crate with it. The reasoning of the owner being if the dog was used to kids at feeding time from being a puppy that it would grow up being good and reliable around children and food. Now I’m not a dog expert, but my tiny brain cells tell me that this is not a great plan.

dear god.
 

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I saw a video yesterday of a 6month old cane corso, eating from its bowl, in its crate, with a tiny child/baby in the crate with it. The reasoning of the owner being if the dog was used to kids at feeding time from being a puppy that it would grow up being good and reliable around children and food. Now I’m not a dog expert, but my tiny brain cells tell me that this is not a great plan.

That’s terrifying. ?
 

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Evening,

do any of you look on other dog forums? I will freely admit to being a fairly novice dog owner. 1 well behaved dog of my own, 1 successfully puppy walked hearing dog and a slightly insane terrier I have some responsibility for but I try my best,

I read The Doghouse on mumsnet and it’s a scary place at times. There is a current thread about someone with a ged/mal adolescent dog that’s growling and baring it’s teeth at her children. Some of the advice seems to me quite frankly crazy if not dangerous.

Not hugely relevant to where the thread is now, but I had a look at the forum as I had an hour or so to kill today- I thought most of the advice on most of the threads seemed reasonable (although some was perhaps excessively rigid) but some of the threads themselves were insane!

I liked the "An online quiz has recommended me a border collie x poodle as an ideal first dog- will it be fine with 2 30 minute walks a day?".
 

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I saw it get called 'Prosecco Stormfront' once ?

Someone did refer someone from there to here/me once and I composed a lengthy PM reply, I **may** have got thank you, but certainly not an update on how things went, sigh...
 

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Mine aren’t fed together. They sit and watch while I get the food then I walk the bowls to where they are fed.
I really like mals to look at. OH would like one. Idk. That intensity would be a bit much, but surely they are only dogs at the end of the day and most dogs (if well bred and had from pups) should respond to correct exercise, stimulation and training? But I doubt they’d be much good in the shooting field so we’ll never know!

I'm pretty sure there's a guy on my gundog forum who has picked up with a Mali - he also breeds them for guarding and protection.
 
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