Pagancloughie needs a dose of your good vibes please

You need to get it all out honey - have a damn good cry, do not hold anything back. Then have a damn good sleep tonight and start the healing process tomorrow. The sooner you let your grief out, the sooner the healing can start xxx
 
I'm crying with you. How horrible. I am sure you did everything you could for your boy. The most important thing is that you loved him and he knew that. He had a loving caring home - what more could he want. My thoughts are with you.
 
so sorry
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I feel you pain, it must be so hard. I used to work in a vets and my understanding is that there is no way you would ever have know about the aneurism. They are something that people live with without symptoms that can burst at any time. At least Paddy was at the vets and able to receive immediate attention and I am sure he didn't suffer at all.

Let yourself grieve and don't feel guilty for doing it.

Take care.
 
Thanks everyone, I am blessed with having lovely people onthis forum that care, thanks.

I am also blesed with having a beautiful boy for 7 years, that was loved and happy, went on hols with us, went to see the horses last night and cried on their shoulders and they hugged me back, lovely, but not the same. He will be dearly missed and never replaced.
 
So very sorry for you, completely understand what you are going through. It will hurt and sometimes it will feel like the pain will never go away, but you will learn to live with it. Lots of hugs for you at this time
 
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