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Daisy11

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It's A small rant reAlly I'm not the most goodish person at keeping my temper
By why do people feel the need to use people
I am on a 4 acre field separated into 2acres each,
mine are together and only me
and other side is 2 other Womans horses
When one of the woman turned up with her horse ,the other woman didn't want to know
I got to know this woman and thought we got on well
To a point me and her became really close friends ,
me even supplying her hay and
one week she was Ill so all that week ,I fed her horse and also
agreed with her I feed her horse when-she can't get down
No payments asked nothing in return
This other woman who is in field with her has started getting
involved and now all of a sudden started feeding my so called
friends horse
To now I'm blanked
I've texted my friend many of times to ask if she wants me to feed
and all I get back is thanks for asking I've asked such and such to
do it
Is it me am I over reacting
I just fill I've been used and now not wanted if u see my point
What gets me this woman who's started being friends in a two faced back stabbing b*tch
 
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I don’t really get why you’re angry?? So you’re mad that she doesn’t need you to feed her horse? It’s a bit unclear as your post isn’t written very well..
 
I wouldn't worry about it - it's one less horse for you to do and if she was using you then at least it has stopped - you probably feel more sad about the friendship you thought you had with her.

Instaed of texting her why don't you ring her or call round to her house and ask her over for a coffee or something - don't even mention the horses. You will soon see if she still wants to be friends with you.

Hope you work it out.
 
Try not to worry about it, if it's really bothering you pull her to one side and ask if u have done anything to upset her? Just sort your own horses out but don't burn tour bridges incase you want her to fees your horses if you get stuck. Good luck :).
 
Thanks guys
I think I just leave it at what it is
I wouldnt bother with her horse anymore and just do mine
I was on hand for her horse as she brought it infoal 7 months ago without noticing
I was going to be there to help if any problems accure during birthing
As she has no knowledge of breeding
But again I'm going to say she have to ask someone else
Mayde I'm being alittle childish but again I feel I've been used then put to one side
Anyway thanks guys really needed to get it out
 
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Maybe she feels bad that you have been doing so much for her so feels getting others to step in as well takes the burden off of you. Especially with the dark nights and winter just round the corner. You've got enough on your plate with two of your own horses so I wouldn't worry about it too much.
 
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