Jenko109
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I would pay a decent freelance to ride her daily for a week or two.
Personality change and new yards - is it normal for even the most laid back ponies?
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honetpot
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I moved six to a friends new yard, which was purpose built, you name it they had it. What was thought provoking was they were all turned out together, as they would be normally, but the land and the yard was very flat and open where as the old yard and fields where enclosed and hedged. They did not like it at all, and the yard which looked like something out of a magazine, took ages for our old boy to settle in to, you could not leave him and he jumped over the stable door. The young pony put his first buck in and I would have moved back only my youngest daughter wanted use of a floodlite school.
As soon as she stopped riding as she went to uni, they went back to often untidy hedge rented paddocks. I do not know why they all got unsettled, the openess, the fact that there was always something happening, the grass was seeded and not old rough weed ridden pasture, anxtiety when turned out, but I know if had bought any of them I would have been worried about my new purchase.
As soon as she stopped riding as she went to uni, they went back to often untidy hedge rented paddocks. I do not know why they all got unsettled, the openess, the fact that there was always something happening, the grass was seeded and not old rough weed ridden pasture, anxtiety when turned out, but I know if had bought any of them I would have been worried about my new purchase.
jumpingjo00
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does anyone have any tips for settling her quicker? or do I just wait it out?
she gets no feed now for those suggesting it earlier
she gets no feed now for those suggesting it earlier
Miggy99
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It’s scary when they have a personality transplant. I haven’t seen my boy in nearly 4 weeks as I had a bad fall and can’t currently drive or do very much for myself. We’d moved yard and he’d come back from a “trainer” a week before. His behaviour on the ground has been unacceptable in the last 4 weeks. The yard manager and another livery are now leading him in and out in his bridle which is helping and they’re just casually leading him around. Certainly no one will be getting on him until his groundwork improves.
I previously had an ex riding school horse. They are challenging in new environments because they are so used to their environment and work etc. I’m sure your mare will come good, but in the meantime I’d be inclined to do the same as with my current boy and forget riding for the minute, work on her confidence and manners on the ground and only when that is rock solid move on to getting back on slowly and with an instructor or knowledgeable and capable friend on hand to help.
MissTyc
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Does she get ad lib hay on new yard? If not and she was used to it, then that can affect many horses even without them developing ulcers.
New place "better fields" = more grass?
Quiet horses can sometimes react harder than more extroverted horses to changes like yard/herd/feed. She lives with other horses but has she left behind her friends?
Is she used to travelling, or is this is a real shock to her?
Time will probably help her settled but this horse is not new to you and I would trust your gut feeling that something isn't quite right. And it might just be the yard - not their fault, but like previous posters I've known horses to simply not like their new yard for some reason. One Newfie who left mine turned dangerous. 9 months later he'd been unridden for 8.5 months, apparently labelled as unhandleable, unrideable, etc. I went to see the owners at the new yard and all I could see was a miserable pony. Brought him home and within days he was as before, rideable by anyone. I'll never know why - grass? other horses? people? no clue! But he didn't like it there! For a while he wouldn't travel after that and they tried to take him to pony camp and he instantly turned dangerous, rearing, bucking, kicking ... Now, several years later, he loves pony camp and seems to know he's coming home again after 3 days.
jumpingjo00
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I'd been dreading going to even see her but I went yesterday and this morning and I've seen a drastic improvement.
She's stopped calling completely. As I mentioned, she had moved with some horses from the old place and they all seem much calmer this week. Maybe it was just a time thing?
I got on her this morning with two friends on the ground and she was fine. the tanking off previously was for the gate, not spooking, which has stopped. Handling-wise, she's actually listening again.
Yes, I've certainly seen horses hate their yards which is why I was getting worried. She seemed happy in the stable from hour 1, but you can't really tell what they're thinking unless they learn to talk.
poiuytrewq
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How are things now Jumpingjo00? Hope its all going well 
jumpingjo00
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I was going to bump this thread anyway, but thank you for asking!How are things now Jumpingjo00? Hope its all going well
We are having some really good weeks but then she goes backwards
nothing too bad: just strong to handle or very tense to ride. it doesn't help I'm having to do most of this myself and if I get nervous, I just can't deal with her.Not sure whether I explicitly said this earlier, but the move would have been a shock to her as she rarely travelled and if so, it was to one specific place for lessons
Really starting to doubt if I should keep going with her or just give up. As mentioned, some weeks, she's a literal dope on the rope and a slug in the school and the next week, it's like a few steps back. Is this part of the settling process? Is back and forth normal for some horses? She's spooking/getting nervous by things she's never had issues with?
Also, before anyone asks, she's now seen: the dentist, vet and physio and also had a massage by a specialist I called from a 3hr drive (!!!), so nothing underlying there. Overall, she's happy at the yard, so I can't figure this out...
Bobthecob15
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Sorry you’re still having some issues. Have you investigated if there is a possible hormonal cause for her behaviour? Is she a mareish mare? Have you tried her one something like Oestress to see if it makes any difference?
I know sometimes mares can behave differently when in season and certainly their behaviour under saddle can really change, we have several on our yard that can be really difficult when in season. There are lots of treatments for it which might help?
I know sometimes mares can behave differently when in season and certainly their behaviour under saddle can really change, we have several on our yard that can be really difficult when in season. There are lots of treatments for it which might help?
jumpingjo00
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she's sometimes a bit moody in season - any good supplements that are quite 'gentle'. She doesn't have hormonal issues but just like us sometimes are worse than others..
Quick update: almost back to normal. Plays up sometimes while being ridden, only when she's had enough. Will try nap to the gate or cuts across the school? Is there any way to effectively stop this?
jumpingjo00
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HOPEFULLY THIS WILL BE MY SECOND TO LAST UPDATE:
any underlying issue has been ruled out. In saying that 70% of the time she is back to her noormal self. But then every few weeks, she has 3-4 days where she is spooky and napping. Is this her just balancing out/acclimitising...? Or has she changed permenantly and I should accept it
any underlying issue has been ruled out. In saying that 70% of the time she is back to her noormal self. But then every few weeks, she has 3-4 days where she is spooky and napping. Is this her just balancing out/acclimitising...? Or has she changed permenantly and I should accept it
maya2008
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My 3yo moved with two friends for summer turnout this year. Seemed happy enough, but became very herd bound and insecure when walking out in hand or ridden. Been here since 9 months old, and it was very out of character behaviour. Brought her home in the autumn, instantly our sweet little pony once more.
I would try a new yard before giving up on the horse.
I would try a new yard before giving up on the horse.
SussexbytheXmasTree
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I had to move both my horses after the yard I’d been in 14yrs closed down this year. They’ve been at the new yard over 4 months and the older horse (15yrs) who was on former yard 6yrs is still a complete pita. I’ve only managed short hacks before he throws his toys out , I used to be able to hack miles with him and my dog. He’s obsessed with the mare he’s been turned out with. Neither will settle on the yard to be groomed. Unfortunately I’m having to move again as it’s not working out so I’ll have to start over again
jumpingjo00
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I had to move both my horses after the yard I’d been in 14yrs closed down this year. They’ve been at the new yard over 4 months and the older horse (15yrs) who was on former yard 6yrs is still a complete pita. I’ve only managed short hacks before he throws his toys out , I used to be able to hack miles with him and my dog. He’s obsessed with the mare he’s been turned out with. Neither will settle on the yard to be groomed. Unfortunately I’m having to move again as it’s not working out so I’ll have to start over again
Sometimes I wonder if something is upsetting her on a mental/emotional but I fail to correlate the 30% bad with events of the day/any external changes
there is steady improvement, incl days where she was better than at the old yard, but it still feels like a struggle.
is it worth trying somewhere else? any gentle supplements to try?