showpony
Well-Known Member
Long story short some of you know i have the most wonderful 5 yr old.... We have come on leaps and bounds together on the flat but have had issues with my confidence jumping her... Due to nerves... Back in saddle 17 mths now after giving up due to an accident 12 yrs ago...
am a million percent confident on the flat but she strides like a 17hh jumping and has unbelievable power in her back end...
no 2 arrived last week , an uncomplicated 8 yr old Connie, bought to give me confidence jumping, and he is doing just that. ...
so had a massive " debate with my coach" and we have decided i will not jump my mare for the next few mths until i get my seat and lower leg totally secure on my new boy...
breaks my heart but had to step back and agree, there is a rider at the yard who is a fantastic rider whom we have agreed would be perfect to take my mare out jumping whilst i work on myself and getting my confidence way up...
will still be riding my mare 4/5 days a week but am to focus on more schooling and working on having fun on her rather than stressing on what she is going to do when it comes to jumping. We will be aiming to do lots of dressage over the next 2 to 3 mths...
feeling a bit like i have failed her but at same time i think it will be great for us, new boy will get me out competing jumping competitively which will hopefully get me where i want to get with my mare.
has anyone been through this before? Have i made the right decision?
sorry for rant but very emotional about the whole thing.
am a million percent confident on the flat but she strides like a 17hh jumping and has unbelievable power in her back end...
no 2 arrived last week , an uncomplicated 8 yr old Connie, bought to give me confidence jumping, and he is doing just that. ...
so had a massive " debate with my coach" and we have decided i will not jump my mare for the next few mths until i get my seat and lower leg totally secure on my new boy...
breaks my heart but had to step back and agree, there is a rider at the yard who is a fantastic rider whom we have agreed would be perfect to take my mare out jumping whilst i work on myself and getting my confidence way up...
will still be riding my mare 4/5 days a week but am to focus on more schooling and working on having fun on her rather than stressing on what she is going to do when it comes to jumping. We will be aiming to do lots of dressage over the next 2 to 3 mths...
feeling a bit like i have failed her but at same time i think it will be great for us, new boy will get me out competing jumping competitively which will hopefully get me where i want to get with my mare.
has anyone been through this before? Have i made the right decision?
sorry for rant but very emotional about the whole thing.