wilkinson1
Well-Known Member
H, I wonder if I could have your thoughts on my situation please?
I have 2 retired horses - 1 is elderly but still quite well, suffers from arthritis and gets really down in the summer due to horse flies etc. the other is only 13 but LOU due to nerve problems similar to wobblers. Not in discomfort if not ridden. He developed aggressive nodular sarcoids last year that didn't respond to mild treatment and consequently are now pretty big and being in his groin area are starting to rub against opposite thigh. Only going to get worse.
My dilemma is basically when to have them put down. I have already made the decision that they will go together as they have been together for years and years and get very distressed if the other is taken away. It would be more traumatic to leave one without the other right? Also add to the equation that I am due to have my second baby in the next 5 weeks and already have a 15 month old. (not sure if is is really relevant)
I keep thinking I have made the decision and then I get upset and think maybe I am doing it too soon. But I really don't want either to suffer or struggle through a rubbish winter only to be tortured by horseflies all summer whilst the sarcoids get worse.
I want to do the right thing for my boys - please could I have people's takes on this situation please? Thanks very much
I have 2 retired horses - 1 is elderly but still quite well, suffers from arthritis and gets really down in the summer due to horse flies etc. the other is only 13 but LOU due to nerve problems similar to wobblers. Not in discomfort if not ridden. He developed aggressive nodular sarcoids last year that didn't respond to mild treatment and consequently are now pretty big and being in his groin area are starting to rub against opposite thigh. Only going to get worse.
My dilemma is basically when to have them put down. I have already made the decision that they will go together as they have been together for years and years and get very distressed if the other is taken away. It would be more traumatic to leave one without the other right? Also add to the equation that I am due to have my second baby in the next 5 weeks and already have a 15 month old. (not sure if is is really relevant)
I keep thinking I have made the decision and then I get upset and think maybe I am doing it too soon. But I really don't want either to suffer or struggle through a rubbish winter only to be tortured by horseflies all summer whilst the sarcoids get worse.
I want to do the right thing for my boys - please could I have people's takes on this situation please? Thanks very much