pipper
Well-Known Member
I have wanted to ask this for ages but dont quite know how to put it into words, but now Ive started I will try....
I have a nice horse that i do dressage on, she is a very capable horse but also very spooky, which over the years has taken its toll on my riding. She can do a fab test and get some good marks (64ish%) in Novice. BUT i need that 'edge' to my test to start winning. She can do a fab medium trot and nice medium canter, canter trans are awful, trot work is good.
I think i need the winning 'mindset' to help me. I dont seem to posess the same competitiveness that others have. I sort of 'deflate' as i go into a test - whether that is nerves or not i have no idea, I dont think i am nervous - i certainly dont feel it?? I have regular lessons and she goes nicely in them (albeit after a lot of work getting her off the leg). but saying that i am not competitive should mean that i dont care about the marks/end result, but I do, a lot! i am usually 5th or below. I want to be 1st or 2nd!!!
please can you 'winners' out there sort of explain what goes on in your head to make you 'winners'
I do hope i make a bit of sense and you understand what im trying to say, I know what i mean but its so difficult putting it into words....
thanks
I have a nice horse that i do dressage on, she is a very capable horse but also very spooky, which over the years has taken its toll on my riding. She can do a fab test and get some good marks (64ish%) in Novice. BUT i need that 'edge' to my test to start winning. She can do a fab medium trot and nice medium canter, canter trans are awful, trot work is good.
I think i need the winning 'mindset' to help me. I dont seem to posess the same competitiveness that others have. I sort of 'deflate' as i go into a test - whether that is nerves or not i have no idea, I dont think i am nervous - i certainly dont feel it?? I have regular lessons and she goes nicely in them (albeit after a lot of work getting her off the leg). but saying that i am not competitive should mean that i dont care about the marks/end result, but I do, a lot! i am usually 5th or below. I want to be 1st or 2nd!!!
please can you 'winners' out there sort of explain what goes on in your head to make you 'winners'
I do hope i make a bit of sense and you understand what im trying to say, I know what i mean but its so difficult putting it into words....
thanks