Pony 2 kids, pregnant mum chucked out of Hillside Farm - Horsham

anskatey

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Yesterday we went to Hillside Farm for the first time with 2 kids and their pony. I am their Mum and 7 months pregnant. Great morning lots of little jumps all had fun. Pony had loaded easily on way to show.

Once the kids had riden in a couple of rounds we tried to load her on the way back and she refused to go in our lorry. Several hours later tired, frustrated and lots of helpful people the owners of the show came along with their "expert" help.

Usual story- lots of jabbing in the mouth, tying down with lead reins, lunge lines round the back. Now furious pony rearing and trying to strike out at everyone. When the "expert" help decided to start beating the pony to get her on. I said stop - thats enough I don't want her lashing out behind as well; she will be unsafe in the future around the kids. This is not a pony you can get angry and aggressive with she just fights back harder.

They actually told me to shut up! They knew what they were doing they were the experts. When I asked them to get their hands off the pony I was told to leave the grounds and never come back.

We had to leave with child riding pony along the busy A272, me driving horsebox for several miles before we found a quite farmlane to call for backup. I had phoned for my friends (who know the pony well and are very good handlers to help). They drove behind my daughter with their hazards on but it was not a place I would normally let her ride along. We were miles from home and in an extremely dangerous situation.

I am absolutely furious they can advertise as friendly competition place for novice riders and think nothing of behaving in this way just because I didn't agree with their decisions or bow down to their "expert" opinions.

In the end we got our vet to sedate the pony and I am having Richard Maxwell out next week to help. He is an "expert" that I am sure won't make things a million times worse or beat the pony.
 
That is awful behavoir! Is there no one you could report them to? Even just the RSPCA for hitting your pony?

My full sympathy with the refusing to load to come home, so fustrating and the last thing you want after a nice day out!
 
Poor you, what a terrible experience. I would be furious too, what a foolhardy thing to do to make your daughter ride the pony away along the roads. I can hardly believe that there are still people around who think that you can beat a pony to make it load in a trailer, but it seems that there are.

Goes back to the"natural horsemanship" thread a couple of weeks ago and why it has gained such a following. I hope you have success with Richard Maxwell.
 
What dreadful treatment! Please be assured most centres would have helped you rather than dictated to you, don't tar them all with the same brush. Some 'experts' can't cope when a pony doesn't respond, and they lose their rag.
Max will get to the bottom of it and help you i'm sure, his methods have never failed me and i've had many horses that 'won't load' and that after a lesson or two have happily popped up the ramp no matter when or where. Fingers crossed for you, ignore the idiots, and don't give them your money again!
 
Poor you. Thats a dreadful situation to be in on all accounts.
Hope you can recover and remain stress free before baby arrives!
Iam sure Max will be a tremedous help, then you can relax.
Can you not complain to someone? Organiser, owner?? Demand a refund??
 
I'm so sorry that happened to you and that is awful behaviour on their part to basically force you to leave.
I am a horse transporter, and have many a troubled pony or horse that won't load. If you have a chance to practice with him this is one method I find that works wonders.
Basically have the horse about 10 yds back from the trailer or lorry, then put a jumper or shirt over his head so he can't see, walk him aroud in one or two circles carefully then walk slowly towards the box or trailer and he should walk right on just be careful when they get to the ramp as could trip as the floor goes up. I do hope you get an easier solution from Richard Maxwell soon
 
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