Wishfilly
Well-Known Member
Luckily there is no major rush to make any decisions, we can manage the three so BBP isn't left alone, its just that 4 is an easier number long term. We can take our time to work out what is right for us, and for me to work out where my heart is. I thought I had lost my love of riding, but I think with the right horse I would regain it, as I do miss it sometimes. I sat on BBP for a few minutes the other day for some photos and thought how much I missed riding him.
In some ways an older horse stepping down and wanting a lovely home would suit fine as its a known entity and I would know if it hacks out safely.
If you have time, I think that's great as it means there's no rush finding something suitable. I don't know what success you'd have, but a wanted ad on a local endurance group might be worth a try? I think it's a bit "being in the right place at the right time" sort of thing, but I do know a few of these which have worked out really well.