Tancho
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Hello all,
I will try to keep this short - I think I know what the ultimate answer is (ie owner should grow up and get the vet out) but I was wondering what the general opinion would be.
A friend of mine has basically fallen in love with a lovely mare, she is owned by an acquaintance of both of us and he hasn't owned her very long, maybe 4 months? At first she was just riding her for him, but then expressed an interest in purchasing her. At this point he turned around and said she might be pregnant. My friend was gutted, she doesn't want to buy a possibly pregnant horse (but is tempted, I can tell) and stopped riding her straight away, whilst the owner refused to get a vet to check her to see if she is pregnant, which got me very suspicious when I was told this. Anyway, two months down the line I was talking to my friend (we only speak on FB really and see each other now and again), and asked her how things were going with the mare. At this point I didn't know about her predicament as the last she told me was that she was buying her, she explained it all to me and asked if I would go and have a look. To be honest I have no idea why, because i'm no expert, and especially on horse breeding - I guess she wanted moral support, or another opinion.
So we go down to see this lovely girly and I was really shocked at her condition but I'm honest stuck as to whether she is pregnant or has some other health condition. She has a huge belly, really hanging, but she has absolutely no fat or muscle on her back whatsoever. You can feel every rib easily, her pelvic bones are very prominent and you can see/feel her spine easily (imagine a toblerone under her skin). She also has a proper waist, I would presume that if in foal that the foal would be sitting back towards the rear of her body, but her stomach goes out from her chest cavity and then dips back in towards her body giving her a waist - basically all the hang is in the middle of her body, if that makes sense. She isn't bagged up at all and her udders are very small, as if a maiden mare. She seems very bright and happy in herself, she just doesn't look great.
The owner got very shirty with me when I asked him why he hadn't had a vet attend, as her overall condition isn't good and wouldn't they want to know if she was pregnant. His reaction was a bit OTT as I was trying my best to be very non confrontational, just asking questions I thought needed asking. He's told me that a vet is coming out this week to check her over, like he hasn't known about it for months now. My friend is letting her heart rule her head, i'm saying no - stay away - something doesn't seem right, and the owner has been dodgy. There are so many lovely horses out there after a new home that aren't in this condition
So I guess here are my questions:
Would it be normal for a mare to lose this much condition during pregnancy? Logic tells me no, this is a stupid question, if feeding correctly!
What other health conditions would cause these kinds of symptoms?
Any other advice you would give my friend in this situation? I'm trying not to be "that person" that sticks their oar in, but at the same time this is messing with my friends feelings, and I feel sorry for the poor mare. I'm trying to be a good friend but I really don't know what to advise her, all I can do is go with my gut feeling that says this one may be trouble - but I could be totally wrong!
Ultimately she is an adult and it is her decision, but she has asked me for honest opinions and i'm trying to be as tactful and honest as possible with her.
Thanks for reading, and a lovely big homemade cupcake drizzled in chocolate if you got to the end.
I will try to keep this short - I think I know what the ultimate answer is (ie owner should grow up and get the vet out) but I was wondering what the general opinion would be.
A friend of mine has basically fallen in love with a lovely mare, she is owned by an acquaintance of both of us and he hasn't owned her very long, maybe 4 months? At first she was just riding her for him, but then expressed an interest in purchasing her. At this point he turned around and said she might be pregnant. My friend was gutted, she doesn't want to buy a possibly pregnant horse (but is tempted, I can tell) and stopped riding her straight away, whilst the owner refused to get a vet to check her to see if she is pregnant, which got me very suspicious when I was told this. Anyway, two months down the line I was talking to my friend (we only speak on FB really and see each other now and again), and asked her how things were going with the mare. At this point I didn't know about her predicament as the last she told me was that she was buying her, she explained it all to me and asked if I would go and have a look. To be honest I have no idea why, because i'm no expert, and especially on horse breeding - I guess she wanted moral support, or another opinion.
So we go down to see this lovely girly and I was really shocked at her condition but I'm honest stuck as to whether she is pregnant or has some other health condition. She has a huge belly, really hanging, but she has absolutely no fat or muscle on her back whatsoever. You can feel every rib easily, her pelvic bones are very prominent and you can see/feel her spine easily (imagine a toblerone under her skin). She also has a proper waist, I would presume that if in foal that the foal would be sitting back towards the rear of her body, but her stomach goes out from her chest cavity and then dips back in towards her body giving her a waist - basically all the hang is in the middle of her body, if that makes sense. She isn't bagged up at all and her udders are very small, as if a maiden mare. She seems very bright and happy in herself, she just doesn't look great.
The owner got very shirty with me when I asked him why he hadn't had a vet attend, as her overall condition isn't good and wouldn't they want to know if she was pregnant. His reaction was a bit OTT as I was trying my best to be very non confrontational, just asking questions I thought needed asking. He's told me that a vet is coming out this week to check her over, like he hasn't known about it for months now. My friend is letting her heart rule her head, i'm saying no - stay away - something doesn't seem right, and the owner has been dodgy. There are so many lovely horses out there after a new home that aren't in this condition
So I guess here are my questions:
Would it be normal for a mare to lose this much condition during pregnancy? Logic tells me no, this is a stupid question, if feeding correctly!
What other health conditions would cause these kinds of symptoms?
Any other advice you would give my friend in this situation? I'm trying not to be "that person" that sticks their oar in, but at the same time this is messing with my friends feelings, and I feel sorry for the poor mare. I'm trying to be a good friend but I really don't know what to advise her, all I can do is go with my gut feeling that says this one may be trouble - but I could be totally wrong!
Ultimately she is an adult and it is her decision, but she has asked me for honest opinions and i'm trying to be as tactful and honest as possible with her.
Thanks for reading, and a lovely big homemade cupcake drizzled in chocolate if you got to the end.