LandH
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So, I've just found out I'm about 7 1/2 weeks pregnant (planned but didn't think it would happen this quickly!) with my first and feeling very unsure about the whole riding thing. I've read through a few different posts on here and feel I need to put down my thoughts.
Warning: this may be a little long and rambling
I always thought that when I did get pregnant I would continue to ride as long as I felt comfortable. Had a suspicion I was pregnant so did a test and it was positive. Hubby not too happy I did a test as he said to just wait and see....I got impatient though lol
Anyway, he's really not happy with the idea of me riding so I agreed to stop riding. His argument is that I'm older than ideal age for a baby (I'm 35 this year - don't think it's too old?) and that my mum had a couple of miscarriages before having me. I do worry that if something happens I will blame myself as it may not have happened if I didn't ride.
BUT I was talking to my hacking buddy and ended up telling her. We ride as often as we can and I couldn't lie to her and make up a reason why I wasn't going to be riding. She has said why not try a few little hacks in walk, see how you feel? It shouldn't bother me as I was out for nearly two hours the day I found out I was pregnant, cantering up hills!!
Don't know where I'm going with this....tempted to do some riding and keep it secret from hubby but VERY worried what would happen if he found out.
This leads on to my next question. What do I do with my boy when I can't ride?
He's a 19 year old cob who is a VERY good doer. Luckily he's gone to living out 24/7 this year but I am worried about when the grass starts coming through. I'm not due until October but can't imagine me riding too far into my pregnancy as he does tend to get a bit of spring fever at times! I could get a sharer but he is arthritic and barefoot - some times he is fine, others he needs time to warm up and some times he forgets and wants to bomb around then hobbles the next day.
sorry for the ramblings! Any words of wisdom gratefully received
Warning: this may be a little long and rambling
I always thought that when I did get pregnant I would continue to ride as long as I felt comfortable. Had a suspicion I was pregnant so did a test and it was positive. Hubby not too happy I did a test as he said to just wait and see....I got impatient though lol
Anyway, he's really not happy with the idea of me riding so I agreed to stop riding. His argument is that I'm older than ideal age for a baby (I'm 35 this year - don't think it's too old?) and that my mum had a couple of miscarriages before having me. I do worry that if something happens I will blame myself as it may not have happened if I didn't ride.
BUT I was talking to my hacking buddy and ended up telling her. We ride as often as we can and I couldn't lie to her and make up a reason why I wasn't going to be riding. She has said why not try a few little hacks in walk, see how you feel? It shouldn't bother me as I was out for nearly two hours the day I found out I was pregnant, cantering up hills!!
Don't know where I'm going with this....tempted to do some riding and keep it secret from hubby but VERY worried what would happen if he found out.
This leads on to my next question. What do I do with my boy when I can't ride?
He's a 19 year old cob who is a VERY good doer. Luckily he's gone to living out 24/7 this year but I am worried about when the grass starts coming through. I'm not due until October but can't imagine me riding too far into my pregnancy as he does tend to get a bit of spring fever at times! I could get a sharer but he is arthritic and barefoot - some times he is fine, others he needs time to warm up and some times he forgets and wants to bomb around then hobbles the next day.
sorry for the ramblings! Any words of wisdom gratefully received