Woolly Hat n Wellies
Well-Known Member
I'm glad to read that other people also thank every motorist who passes. I thank all traffic, even the idiots (although those mostly in the hopes that they'll feel guilty for trying to take the horse's back end off at 60!), and the horses have to go down a main road to get to the quieter lanes and paths, so there can be quite a lot of waving. I was always taught to thank everyone, to give a good impression of the horsey community in general, and so that people might consider slowing down to pass horses in future. If someone does slow down I'm grinning, waving, shouting 'thank you'... If a lorry driver stopped and turned his engine off I think I'd fall off in my enthusiasm to thank him! Recently my bf's dad passed me in a car while we were hacking. He didn't slow down, but I thanked him anyway. When I went over to their house for dinner that evening, he said, "I saw you on the horse today, waving at all the traffic. You looked really stupid!" and proceeded to do a mickey-taking impression of me, complete with poncey faces, pretend cantering, and stupid waving. I was really upset and began to imagine that all those people I was trying to be polite to were laughing at me as well, and I started overanalysing my thankyous when out hacking. I'm glad I'm not the only one, so in future I shall continue to thank anyone and everyone and to wave 'stupidly' at all truck drivers!