GirlFriday
Well-Known Member
I'm in favour of PTS when necessary. I do it myself. And it sucks. But I have no qualms. It is just sad.
Was simply pointing out that in this particular instance the OP has
- given enough info to ID the YO (think how they must feel reading 6 pages of vitriol about them and their customers!)
- decided, for possibly excellent (but unknown to this thread) reasons, to refuse assistance from said YO which would have given OP more freedom to do what she felt was right for her older horse
No one has a 'right' to take an unbalanced view and get unconditional validation. Even on HHO. The OP posted a very measured and realistic post. She'll understandably feel rubbish now. I was simply pointing out that there are other ways to view the situation and actions of those involved which take a less-dim view of humanity in general.
Was simply pointing out that in this particular instance the OP has
- given enough info to ID the YO (think how they must feel reading 6 pages of vitriol about them and their customers!)
- decided, for possibly excellent (but unknown to this thread) reasons, to refuse assistance from said YO which would have given OP more freedom to do what she felt was right for her older horse
No one has a 'right' to take an unbalanced view and get unconditional validation. Even on HHO. The OP posted a very measured and realistic post. She'll understandably feel rubbish now. I was simply pointing out that there are other ways to view the situation and actions of those involved which take a less-dim view of humanity in general.