wingedhorse99
Well-Known Member
Well said, but can't help wondering what may happen in the future if/when the owner comes out the other side of this current situation whatever that may be. If it's a situation similar to yours AA the owner could find themselves in 12 months time wishing they hadn't gone through with it.
It's an awful position to be in, and I can't help thinking that IF (big if) the owner had the option to turn the horse away for 6-12months somewhere similar to GGs set up (I appreciate this may not be an option), they could give themselves time to assess their situation and go from there? This is assuming the decision is one that they have come to relatively quickly in reaction to fast changing circumstances. This may not be the case and the owner may be beyond that point already.
I know someone who had an early teens TB PTS. Single mum, working full time, and studying for job related qualifications. Time and money a huge struggle. She put him on grass livery, but he didnt thrive, and battled mudfever etc. And I think she decided against another winter. He was sound, and rideable, but a TB nature with quirks, including hacking quirks and she felt he wasnt safe enough for sharers / loan.
As part of having him PTS she made the decision in his memory not to ever ride or get another horse, and her life has gone in other directions.
I dont judge her. I am sure she has judged herself more than enough already.