Really dont know how to say it........

[steph21]

Hi guys,

Some of you may remember me posting a while back about moving Abbey to my best friends yard as I was having truoble with a problem pony, but they also have a sand school which I dont have at the place im at now.

Well anyway I have now been offered to move before christmas

, well this weekend which I think would be a good idea as I finish work on friday and dont go back till the 2nd. So I would have a really nice long week to settle her in etc.

But I really dont know how to tell my current YO that im moving, shes so lovely and I dont want to upset her but obvioulsy I need to tell her tonight!

How would you say it????

 

[lastresort]

Tell her the truth thats all you can do.

Leave on a good note always

 

[Acolyte]

I would just say you wanted to move to somewhere with a school - its perfectly reasonable - I'm sure she will be fine about it, she is running a business after all

 

[JulieL]

Ditto PreNoviceEventer - honesty is always the best policy and YO, if reasonable, will fully understand.

Hope the move goes well

LBx

 

[vhf]

You know I'm really getting interested in my dressage, and the chance came up to move to a yard with a sand school and I knew if I turned it down I'd regret it... but thank you so much for supporting me this far and I'll let you know how I get on... with a nice Christmas present and a promise to recommend them should the opportunity arise.

 

[steph21]

Thanks guys! Im just going to be honest but I just dont want her to think its anything they have done!

 

[catherinep]

Just make sure that you pay up to the notice period/whatever arrangement you have and are all fair and square....then should not be a problem.

 

[keeperscottage]

I'm no longer at a yard as such - I just rent a block of four stables plus fantastic grazing from a local farmer. However, I left a local hunt yard not once, but twice! I left on both occasions an VERY good terms, and when I left the second time, the elderly owner said "Do come back at any time!"...and she meant it! So, leave on good terms, and you'll (hopefully) always be welcome back!