Not_so_brave_anymore
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Background: I used to be very horsey as a teenager/young adult, had my own (not very easy) horse for 10 years. I then had 15 years off, and popped out a few kids. Im out of practice, and a bit more pathetic than I was expecting!
I've recently got a tiny little 11.3 13yo Dartmoor mare to live at home. She's basically a nice little pony. She did a bit of everything in her last home, owner was high up in pony club, sold her as totally genuine first ridden.
BUT. This hasn't been quite my experience! she's fine on the road, but very prancey and spinny if I ever try to take her into a field. Extra complication is that we've now got a 12.2 on loan as a companion. My mare has very much established herself as the dominant of the two. There were a couple of all out kicking matches early on, which have now been resolved between the two ponies. I know this is very normal behaviour, but having seen her double barrel the new pony and really mean it, it's made me very cautious!
But now we're coming into spring and I'll really need to start lunging to keep the weight off when I move her onto the fresh grass in the summer field, although I will strip graze to begin with (never had lami, but obvs a risk) And lunging has to be done in a field- I've got no sand school. i had a go today, and I think I maintained an assertive front when she started pissing about, but afterwards I was shaking. We didn't actually do any lunging, I didn't get any further than leading her in a 20m circle, clinging on to her headcollar.
I had plenty of help lined up to be an extra pair of hands, lend moral support etc but now obviously no one is allowed up, and I'm all on my own.
Is it totally ridiculous to just leave them in their winter field? Ie never move them on to the fresh grass? It's currently a fairly bare (but not poached) nearly 1 acre. A nice long thin acre down a long hill, so some token exercise there I guess. As the grass starts to grow through, will that be too much, if it's starting from almost nothing? I'm very happy to supplement with as much hay as needed throughout the whole year.
What else do I do? Please be kind- I was never expecting to find myself in this position!
Oh ps I can't walk her out on the lane at the moment because I can't leave the kids, and I can't take them all with. Plus, new pony is not 100% with tractors, And I was expecting to have an extra pair of hands the first few time I took the two out together. Now we have a companion, my mare won't leave without her- jogs, spins, barges, yells etc.
I've recently got a tiny little 11.3 13yo Dartmoor mare to live at home. She's basically a nice little pony. She did a bit of everything in her last home, owner was high up in pony club, sold her as totally genuine first ridden.
BUT. This hasn't been quite my experience! she's fine on the road, but very prancey and spinny if I ever try to take her into a field. Extra complication is that we've now got a 12.2 on loan as a companion. My mare has very much established herself as the dominant of the two. There were a couple of all out kicking matches early on, which have now been resolved between the two ponies. I know this is very normal behaviour, but having seen her double barrel the new pony and really mean it, it's made me very cautious!
But now we're coming into spring and I'll really need to start lunging to keep the weight off when I move her onto the fresh grass in the summer field, although I will strip graze to begin with (never had lami, but obvs a risk) And lunging has to be done in a field- I've got no sand school. i had a go today, and I think I maintained an assertive front when she started pissing about, but afterwards I was shaking. We didn't actually do any lunging, I didn't get any further than leading her in a 20m circle, clinging on to her headcollar.
I had plenty of help lined up to be an extra pair of hands, lend moral support etc but now obviously no one is allowed up, and I'm all on my own.
Is it totally ridiculous to just leave them in their winter field? Ie never move them on to the fresh grass? It's currently a fairly bare (but not poached) nearly 1 acre. A nice long thin acre down a long hill, so some token exercise there I guess. As the grass starts to grow through, will that be too much, if it's starting from almost nothing? I'm very happy to supplement with as much hay as needed throughout the whole year.
What else do I do? Please be kind- I was never expecting to find myself in this position!
Oh ps I can't walk her out on the lane at the moment because I can't leave the kids, and I can't take them all with. Plus, new pony is not 100% with tractors, And I was expecting to have an extra pair of hands the first few time I took the two out together. Now we have a companion, my mare won't leave without her- jogs, spins, barges, yells etc.