Relationship woes....opinions please..

[JazzyMan1]

Hi Ebn,
I'm glad your taking time to sort out your ex. It's not healthy to be like that when you are trying to move on.

It sounds to me like you do still care a lot for this guy 2 and I hope you find your happiness with him.

Pursuing love and happiness is always a tricky road but when you get there it's worth every second.

Good luck!

 

[TheoryX1]

This...



...and this...

From another oldie who kissed a few frogs in her time; the best thing I ever did was be single and thoroughly independent for a few years... I also set the bar of my expectations *much* higher... Tripped over Mr Dragon when I was perfectly happy in my own skin and the poor chap worked his backside off to prove he would be an enhancement to my pretty comfortable, single life...

IMO, the right one will come along when you don't actually need a fella...

Another yes to this one. I married my Mr Wrong at 19 years old and had my heart broken. However, although its scarey on your own, its fun, and I had some great fun, met some lovely people, went out with some lovely men and I met Mr TX when I least wanted a relationship. Like Mr Dragon, he had to work his butt off to get me. Many years later, we've had our ups and downs, but are still very much together and that old spark is still there.

Dont lose heart, you will be fine. Honest.