Silent Knight
Well-Known Member
Did you actually just quote meatloaf at me you weirdo?![]()
Lmao. Just had to explain to OH why i was laughing
Did you actually just quote meatloaf at me you weirdo?![]()
oh do get a room you 2!![]()
Of course there are other welfare issues, some of greater, some of lesser importance. But something like bad management, ill fitting tack etc is widely regarded as being acceptable to comment on. Whereas discussions on weight are nearly always viewed as fat bashing & personal. If a ym was to raise concerns over forage, hoof care, worming etc it would be regarded as perfectly fine, even if the ym already knows the client is struggling financially or timewise. Whereas if a ym expressed similar concerns over a too heavy rider, its seen as insulting. Likewise vets, instructors etc, they tread on eggshells round weight issues when they wouldn't with other concerns.
Agree, well said.
I think you can tell from the emotive response on here how many people aren't prepared to take personal responsibility for their weight!!!
Actually i think half the people complaining are the tall ones who, to be healthy, may weight 10st+.
According to this 10-15% ration i would be too heavy even for our 17.2hh ID x. I'm 5'10 and 10st....
Well I had a saddle very badly fitted by a qualified riding instructor (only when I noticed bare patches lines etc, on his back and did what I should have done in the first place, called out saddle fitter)
OT but I've got to say, there are a lot of experienced horse people who are better at fitting saddles than a lot of saddle fitters. You can only go by the individual not the qualification at all.
Good point Kadastorm. My daughter is as tall as you and weighs 10 stone though is of course slim, due to her height.
I am glad the discussion is being had about rider weight, but actual obesity means a BMI of 30 - 40. So many people fall under 30 but may still be too heavy for a lighter type of horse or pony. Most of us are sensible and gravitate towards a suitable animal. Only occasionally do I see people with higher BMIs trying to ride spindly TB types.