Tiddlypom
Carries on creakily
Yep.You're telling me some dipshit needs absolute reassurance they are safe???
Are you a millennial?
Nope.
Yep.You're telling me some dipshit needs absolute reassurance they are safe???
Are you a millennial?
Suppose it was the other way around - you are riding or walking along a narrow track and a motorcyclist (or cyclist) came towards you with no hands on the handlebars. We all know the bike can be steered by weight and balance - but would you expect them to put their hands on the handlebars to pass you?
Well if that's how it's going to be...Equally.... how are riders meant to know how well trained a human is around horses? Especially those with dogs/cycles/cars/guns.
Get a grip people.
Get a grip.
It's a 500kg beast (there or therabouts) that is capable of wrecking anything to shreds yet has sufficient training to carry a lump on it's back and a metal thing between it's gums and walking through all manner of manmade claptrap without so much of a sigh even. You're telling me some dipshit walking along the lane needs absolute reassurance they are safe???
Are you a millennial?
This isn't aimed at you Otherwise but we have to get past this habit of dissing people based on how old they are. Anyone who uses 'millennial 'or 'boomer' as an insult needs to start thinking for themselvesWell if that's how it's going to be...
Ok boomer
I think riding a horse is a bit like driving a car, its not only your actions that you have to take in to consideration but everything and everyone that is arround you. So if an accident happens you can defend your actions.
I can not see how venting no matter how rude the stranger confronting you is makes a situation better. I would have listened, unless they were violent, thanked them for their opinion poilitely and walked off.
If this had happpened in our viilage, the chances are she would have been straight down the PC , telling them how rude and irresponsible the rider was, next step an article in the PC magazine,and whether its valid or not it gives the impression riders do not care about other users.
We have very few bridleways and byways and what there are are often cut in half by housing estates and A roads. If we want more access we have to share, and if we want councils to support us we have to show that we are respectful of other users, we are the minority.
How much easier is it to give funding to a route where the users, can be older people walking, or mum or dad with two children out for an afternoons bike ride, there are also more of them. Someone on 500kg of animal who's eye level is about 3ft above yours is intimidating, you may not think so but its is.
When the kids were small I spent a lot of time walking round our large commutor village on their old shaggy pony, going places where usually ponies do not go. We went to the pub, the village shop, talked to pensioners in their gardens, stood and grazed the ponies on the village green talking to people and basically went out of our way not to come across as entitled snobs.
There was a huge discussion about equines going under the under pass, the ROW went up to it both ends but the underpass was not part of the ROW, the village was split by what is now virtually a motorway. So we need people on our side. My mantra is be polite to everyone because you never know who you are talking to.
I watched three horses going down a track that goes past our house today, its not a bridleway, they were not ploddy donkey types and yes no matter how confident they were in their horse I would want them to take up the reins and have a contact if I was walking on that was a footpath which is maintained by the PC and the drainage board. I know why they were on it, because its the only link back to the village that is not on a busy road.
If you can not relax your hands, elbows and shoulders to give your horse a neck stretch whilist still having a contact, well its something I taught my daughters to do and they could even do on a TB with a fussy mouth.
This isn't aimed at you Otherwise but we have to get past this habit of dissing people based on how old they are. Anyone who uses 'millennial 'or 'boomer' as an insult needs to start thinking for themselves