GreenEyedMonster
Well-Known Member
Hi all,
Ive got a youngster who in the initial few weeks i rode her was as good as gold, any occasional spooking was very slight or only involved a few steps to the side.
We even started jumping and had gone out hacking! Fast forward a few months and after some time off for my exams and she has become very unpredictable! So much so that I actually dread even getting on her!
How do you deal with this?
I am returning home from college tomorrow and no doubt i will have to get on her within the next few days and i am dreading it because she will be totally fine and then BOOM she either runs backwards and broncks or straight up broncks!!
Its very nerve wracking and difficult to stay on! She is alright for the people who broke her in as we sent her away to them whilst i was at school but with me its different! I am a very quiet rider as it is, i have a very light contact and avoid using too much leg because of how my other horse behaves.
It seems the issue is me and she knows she can throw people off now! It brings me almost to tears just thinking about the next time she plays up!
Im almost thinking to wait until she throws me off and then taking to her eith the whip so she learns not to prat about! But i know this isnt right so what can i do?!
Its ruining the way i ride and making me nervous of my other horse who i have owned for four years! I dont mind him rearing or brincking but this mare is just nasty!
Ive got a youngster who in the initial few weeks i rode her was as good as gold, any occasional spooking was very slight or only involved a few steps to the side.
We even started jumping and had gone out hacking! Fast forward a few months and after some time off for my exams and she has become very unpredictable! So much so that I actually dread even getting on her!
How do you deal with this?
I am returning home from college tomorrow and no doubt i will have to get on her within the next few days and i am dreading it because she will be totally fine and then BOOM she either runs backwards and broncks or straight up broncks!!
Its very nerve wracking and difficult to stay on! She is alright for the people who broke her in as we sent her away to them whilst i was at school but with me its different! I am a very quiet rider as it is, i have a very light contact and avoid using too much leg because of how my other horse behaves.
It seems the issue is me and she knows she can throw people off now! It brings me almost to tears just thinking about the next time she plays up!
Im almost thinking to wait until she throws me off and then taking to her eith the whip so she learns not to prat about! But i know this isnt right so what can i do?!
Its ruining the way i ride and making me nervous of my other horse who i have owned for four years! I dont mind him rearing or brincking but this mare is just nasty!