Harhaz
New User
Sorry ladies of similiar mindset and aspirations to me - I need your help.
Have my own horse, strictly DIY basis, very large wide cob. Ride several times a week, hacking, and do all chores. Aged 50, Just had to have rectocele surgery. Could really do with any info - good or bad, I can take it - on getting 'back to normal'. My horse is a massive part of my life, both riding and looking after. A way of life. Fellow horsewomen will understand. But I do also work etc etc so have to have other considerations. Risk of recurrence seems high. Can't believe I am alone. How did anyone/everyone else cope? How many restrictions? Am I foolish and selfish to even consider. Plenty have said I need to give up. But it's who I am.
Help.
Have my own horse, strictly DIY basis, very large wide cob. Ride several times a week, hacking, and do all chores. Aged 50, Just had to have rectocele surgery. Could really do with any info - good or bad, I can take it - on getting 'back to normal'. My horse is a massive part of my life, both riding and looking after. A way of life. Fellow horsewomen will understand. But I do also work etc etc so have to have other considerations. Risk of recurrence seems high. Can't believe I am alone. How did anyone/everyone else cope? How many restrictions? Am I foolish and selfish to even consider. Plenty have said I need to give up. But it's who I am.
Help.