DappleGreyDaydreamer
Well-Known Member
I got into an argument with someone at my yard today about proper use of riding crops. I have a young Connemara who can be very unresponsive off my leg, so I carry one to quickly reinforce my aid before he learns bad and lazy habits, however I would never use it to such force that it hurt him or he became afraid of it. She also has a youngster, 6 months younger than mine, and I think she can be quite excessive with her use of the whip if he makes a mistake. For example, I would only ever tap my horse once, lightly on the shoulder or behind my leg, but she'd hit hers about five times in a row. She thinks I'm too soft on my horse, and I think she's too hard on hers, and we came to blows when she shouted at me to 'slap him harder' when he refused a jump.
Please don't think I'm berating her, as I'm really not - her horse, her problem, as far as I'm concerned - but I was just wondering what your opinions were on the correct use of a riding crop?
Please don't think I'm berating her, as I'm really not - her horse, her problem, as far as I'm concerned - but I was just wondering what your opinions were on the correct use of a riding crop?