krissi
Well-Known Member
Hi,
So it's been a while since I have been on here and I was hoping for some pearls of wisdom from you guys.
I have had a break from riding due to illness and losing my boy, recently a friend of mine and I decided to go for a lesson at some local stables, I have been 4 times now and the first and second lessons were great, 3rd rime we went some different which was terrible then today we went back to the first place. They put me on a horse which I am sure is normally lovely but he had already been on a 2 hour hack and was sweaty when I got on, I really struggled to get him going. Part of this was because he knackered and then part will have been because I simply don't have the fitness in my legs to really drive a lazy horse on. The instructor wouldn't let carry a whip and then about 5 minutes before the end I pulled up and said to instructor that I was struggling. Instead of being helpful she pulled one of the other instructors out who got on with spurs and a schooling whip and made him go he'll for leather round the school.
I know I am not the best rider in the world but I have come away feeling so deflated and like I have gone 10 steps back.
I simply dot have the time to have my own again but I miss it terribly. I don't want to be paying the better part of £30 a week to walk away feeling like I have done these last 2 weeks.
What do I do? Is there anywhere anyone can suggest?
Sorry for the rant.
So it's been a while since I have been on here and I was hoping for some pearls of wisdom from you guys.
I have had a break from riding due to illness and losing my boy, recently a friend of mine and I decided to go for a lesson at some local stables, I have been 4 times now and the first and second lessons were great, 3rd rime we went some different which was terrible then today we went back to the first place. They put me on a horse which I am sure is normally lovely but he had already been on a 2 hour hack and was sweaty when I got on, I really struggled to get him going. Part of this was because he knackered and then part will have been because I simply don't have the fitness in my legs to really drive a lazy horse on. The instructor wouldn't let carry a whip and then about 5 minutes before the end I pulled up and said to instructor that I was struggling. Instead of being helpful she pulled one of the other instructors out who got on with spurs and a schooling whip and made him go he'll for leather round the school.
I know I am not the best rider in the world but I have come away feeling so deflated and like I have gone 10 steps back.
I simply dot have the time to have my own again but I miss it terribly. I don't want to be paying the better part of £30 a week to walk away feeling like I have done these last 2 weeks.
What do I do? Is there anywhere anyone can suggest?
Sorry for the rant.