TrasaM
Well-Known Member
So true. The horse I was taught on ( started riding just over 2 years ago) was really good at sussing you out. His default pace was halt lol. However I was switched between him and another more slightly willing horse for my first 6 months of lessons. The things that poor horse had to put up with as he was the horse if choice for all adult beginners. If a riding crop was used he would throw in a half hearted buck but would then actually start to comply.These horses will weigh you up the second you get on them. If they know that you are reluctant to give them a harder kick if they ignore lighter aids they will take advantage of it and put in minimal effort. If you start off as if you mean it and are strong when they ignore your aids you may well find that you will then be able to use lighter aids for the rest of the lesson.
I too was told to boot. However I've got a very ineffective boot and still do,' I resorted to nudging with my heels. Not good either as it meant that I started to lift my heels so I've had to unlearn this too.
I too was totally fed up with plods after a few weeks but then the not so ploddy horse taught me a lesson. I was learning to canter and he decided it'd be fun to charge off around the school at full tilt and I couldn't get him to stop. It was one of the few times I've been truly scared on horseback. ! This is why plods are used for beginners. It's safer.
As to the kicking ; I totally agree that it should not be necessary and that poor horse has just learnt to ignore it.
After 6 months I was moved on to a horse who was the complete opposite. I'd actually picked up the courage to ask if I could start refining my aids a bit rather than having a constant battle just to keep moving but they were a step ahead and had already decided to do so. His default speed was, and can still be at times, fast as possible and don't stop! I've loved every lesson I've had on this horse and I'm still getting the hang of him 18 months on and I so wish he were mine!
I still have lessons on him now and he has taught me so much. I dread to think what'd happen if someone booted him though.
Good luck with your lesson OP and well done fir recognising that booting is neither effective nor kind.