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Hi, I'm at my wits end.
Bought my son a new pony 8 months ago, due to his older pony needing to be retired. Viewed pony, and seen it run out with rider, but gave the pony, the benefit of the doubt, as rider rushed at jumps and took dodgy lines (on hindsight, maybe this was a tactic/technique required). Son got on well with pony. Bit too forward when jumping, to what we were used to...But pony was chilled in a new environment and sweet natured. It was clear the pony had great talent, so we thought this could be worked on and worth the work.
The running out had been gradually improving, but still very inconsistent. She has developed a talent for it and can lock the neck. Got teeth done and had booked bit consultation, as still felt pony could be a bit strong at time. By the time we got appointment, I was happy with bit we were using but honoured the appointment. Tried the advised new bit, but she bolted on a hack, which never happened before, so went back to old bit. And things settled again. Got physo done and she said pony was completely sound. My son was getting a little defeated with 4/8 faults every round. Hadnt had a clear round since before bit consultation. So got remote reiki done...feeling it must be something deeper. First session, pony bucked quite a bit, which is out of character. Reiki said it was due to releasing tension. OK 2 nights later with flatwork. Followed advice but bucking continued. 4th session back at a show, bucking was constant, which was maybe due to a bit of freshness, ironically went clear... settled for next round, but went back to running out. Only did 4 out of the 6 sessions with reiki and was refunded. That was 2 weeks ago and the running out has got worse. Nastier and more unexpected. Bucking has improved, but have started to lunge before rides which seems to help. Has anyone had a similar sh*t experience? Advice please?
Rider is talking about quitting and I don't want it to be like this. At the start, I seen more rider errors but now, I don't think he deserves the run outs he getting. Pony is smart, 8 years old and has more experience with competitive showjumping. I'm blaming myself for interfering with training/bonding process now.
Bought my son a new pony 8 months ago, due to his older pony needing to be retired. Viewed pony, and seen it run out with rider, but gave the pony, the benefit of the doubt, as rider rushed at jumps and took dodgy lines (on hindsight, maybe this was a tactic/technique required). Son got on well with pony. Bit too forward when jumping, to what we were used to...But pony was chilled in a new environment and sweet natured. It was clear the pony had great talent, so we thought this could be worked on and worth the work.
The running out had been gradually improving, but still very inconsistent. She has developed a talent for it and can lock the neck. Got teeth done and had booked bit consultation, as still felt pony could be a bit strong at time. By the time we got appointment, I was happy with bit we were using but honoured the appointment. Tried the advised new bit, but she bolted on a hack, which never happened before, so went back to old bit. And things settled again. Got physo done and she said pony was completely sound. My son was getting a little defeated with 4/8 faults every round. Hadnt had a clear round since before bit consultation. So got remote reiki done...feeling it must be something deeper. First session, pony bucked quite a bit, which is out of character. Reiki said it was due to releasing tension. OK 2 nights later with flatwork. Followed advice but bucking continued. 4th session back at a show, bucking was constant, which was maybe due to a bit of freshness, ironically went clear... settled for next round, but went back to running out. Only did 4 out of the 6 sessions with reiki and was refunded. That was 2 weeks ago and the running out has got worse. Nastier and more unexpected. Bucking has improved, but have started to lunge before rides which seems to help. Has anyone had a similar sh*t experience? Advice please?
Rider is talking about quitting and I don't want it to be like this. At the start, I seen more rider errors but now, I don't think he deserves the run outs he getting. Pony is smart, 8 years old and has more experience with competitive showjumping. I'm blaming myself for interfering with training/bonding process now.