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Thoughts are with you, try to remember the good, only time will heal.

We went through similar a few years ago, not under tack. Our horse came cantering over to the gate to come in for the night and dropped dead in front of us. He knew nothing and was gone in an instant.

As you say, it's a double pain, the shock and the loss.
Kindest regards and sympathy.
 
Sorry to hear your sad stories and thank you for sharing them. My friends and family are wonderful, they all know how much he meant to me. I just can't bare to speak to anyone tho, I'm just lying here feeling dead inside and dreading the future without him.
 
I'm so sorry to hear this, I can't begin to imagine how you're feeling right now.

A friend had this happen to her a few months back coming back from the field, it was the greatest shock and only time can heal xx
 
What a shock for you and so tragic. ((((hugs)))

Easier said than done but try to concentrate on all the good times you've had.

So sorry for your loss :(
 
Truly sad and awful for you... I'm so sorry for your tragic loss.
I've lost animals and close family over the years. 2 relatives suddenly and before their time. Time is a great healer, but you've had a terrible shock, and
It will take a while to process what has happened. You will never get over it, and that's ok because you will learn to cherish the happy memories.
Take it 1 day at a time, look after you, and dont be afraid to seek proffessional help if you're struggling.

Sending you massive hugs, :( xxx
 
text you a couple of times, been really worried about you ems. he was a star, so lucky to have you, a mummy that loved him so so much. i honestly couldnt take it in, went into work crying. get in touch when youre up to it. me and fox send love and hugs your way. here for you when youre ready xxxxxx
 
:(I am so very sorry to hear this, I hope you weren't injured.
My sympathy and thoughts are with you.
 
Thanks again everyone, your words are helping. Thanks soph - as I'm sure you can imagine my heart is totally broken, it hasn't sunk in and I'm not sure if it will ever seem quite real. Can't believe I will never see him again.xx
 
its awful, i can only compare it to losing my friend, and when cav left. i know how much he meant to you and i know how much you meant to him too. i dont think it ever really does sink in, losing jack still hasnt. at least you were there with him, horrible as it is you were by his side til the end. im just glad to hear from you, been thinking about you since i heard, fox is available for plenty of cuddles and such when you need them xxxx
 
I know it doesn't feel like it now but time does help and you will start to feel better. Like you I was in a daze when I lost my first ever horse. One day he was fine and the next gone. Time helped thou. I still think of him and the things we could have done together and I will always have a place for him in my heart. Now it's too soon to believe, but I promise you will feel better in time. Xx
 
I am so sorry. I know no words will take away the hurt and shock at the moment, but take heart in the fact you were with him, it was quick and he is free now. Bless you, I do so feel for you. Take care of yourself ,hugs xx
RIP beautiful Milieu x
 
I'm so sorry for your loss. This happened to me when I was 14 at my riding school. I had just mounted and was doing my stirrups when the horse had a heart attack, and it was horrid. At 14 I felt so guilty for ages as he was a school favourite, but you learn to realise it's nothing you have/ had any control over. Much love and hugs xx
 
Grumpy jewel that's an awful thing for someone so young. There was a girl with us, she's only fifteen, I feel so awful that she had to see it. Such a very shocking thing. God life is so tough.x
 
Massive massive (((((((((((((hugs)))))))))))) to you. I'm so sorry for your shock and sudden loss of your horse.
Do whatever you need to do to help you cope with this tragedy.
When I lost Lucy I couldn't talk about her for ages. It just hurt to much. Most of my friends and family understood and just stood by me till I was ready to talk about it. There is no right or wrong way to deal with greif. If you need to cry cry, if you need to talk about your horse do or if you need to be alone for a while then thats ok to. We are all here if you need a place to let it all out. I know you don't know me but i'm always around if you need to talk to someone or just want someone to listen. Feel free to PM me anytime.

RIP Milieu. Thakyou for taking such good care of your mum to the end, you obviously knew how much she loved you. Run free beautiful boy. xx :(
 
Sorry OP :'(

Time is a healer, with time you will start to feel better. Horrible to see your horse go through that. Be strong... RIP x
 
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