elsielouise
Well-Known Member
Hi - I'd love some experienced ideas here if anyone can help. I've ridden for 30 years myself but this one has me stumped and I think just 'bitting to the eyeballs' wont work but something has to be done.
Before I start I have many experienced - hunting and eventing friends all offering advice from tom thumb bits to market harboroughs, waterford gags and bungies so, although I'm willing to try things I want a rationale rather than 'it worked for me story' if at all possible as that's mostly what I'm getting at home. Poor horse won't know which way up is if I tried every recommendation!
I've also got to the point now where I need to try anything to solve this problem and also I thought writing it down might help so apologies if this gets long.
Basically I've owned my 8 yr old WBX mare since weaning and although she's always been strong, over the last few weeks (since a yard move in October to a new and much more interesting hacking area) she has become increasingly (dangerously) strong in any bit I work her in outside the school. I use a snaffle for schooling and slow hacking- (she's still fine in school) and kimblewick for x country or faster hacks. I've also got a waterford but the bit doesn't seem to make a huge difference. when she's good she's very good when she's bad she's dreadful whatever is in her mouth.
AND I took her hunting for the first time last week (kimplewick and crank noseband) and a 'light' seemed to go on and she picked up I couldn't stop her. We had a couple of dangerous situations including her falling in front of another horse as she ran through my aid to stop her and she slid at speed round a corner.
I've also just come back from a hack with some friends where somehting in a bush upset her and she went form trot to flat gallop in about three seconds. OK I had a snaffle in but she opened her mouth ,lifted and/or lowered her head (depending on what technique I was trying) and kept going.
(I did go back along same track and walk up and down it til she didn't run off (four goes) and actually saw she'd seen some farm machinary doing loud scary things).
My trainer has taught me to lighten my seat and use my back and weight to stop her when schooling and this works fine, she'll stop frm seat only in the school but when there's more than one horse or something spooks her I have NO control at all.
She's ALWAYS evaded by running through me, when I taught her to canter it was a wall of death situation for several weeks until she became balanced. Wasn't any point doing anything except sitting quietly, taking my weight off her back and waiting for it to get better which, might be the answer to this.
What I'm wondering though is if I should 'gadget her' for a while before this becomes an ingrained 'I'm stronger than you' issue.
In every other way she's fantastic but I want to hunt and event her and I don't want to take her anywhere at speed at the min never mind jump!
The only other thing I;m wondering about is she was raised in a herd of two and has only hacked out with more that two other horses at any speed about half a dozen times in her life and maybe she'll settle if we do lots of slow boring work in a group ( tricky to pursuade ten friends to come for a boring hack)
Ooooooooooh this has got alarmingly long but having written it out my inclination is to decide on a combination of bit/whatever to show her she can't evade this way and then get her into lots of situations where I can safely control here even if things get exciting. Then perhaps begin with cubbing next year...
Blimey, if anyone has got this far and not died of boredom I'd love your opinion. Has anyone owned anything similiar. Did you give up and just take up in hand showing instead!!
I thank you!
Before I start I have many experienced - hunting and eventing friends all offering advice from tom thumb bits to market harboroughs, waterford gags and bungies so, although I'm willing to try things I want a rationale rather than 'it worked for me story' if at all possible as that's mostly what I'm getting at home. Poor horse won't know which way up is if I tried every recommendation!
I've also got to the point now where I need to try anything to solve this problem and also I thought writing it down might help so apologies if this gets long.
Basically I've owned my 8 yr old WBX mare since weaning and although she's always been strong, over the last few weeks (since a yard move in October to a new and much more interesting hacking area) she has become increasingly (dangerously) strong in any bit I work her in outside the school. I use a snaffle for schooling and slow hacking- (she's still fine in school) and kimblewick for x country or faster hacks. I've also got a waterford but the bit doesn't seem to make a huge difference. when she's good she's very good when she's bad she's dreadful whatever is in her mouth.
AND I took her hunting for the first time last week (kimplewick and crank noseband) and a 'light' seemed to go on and she picked up I couldn't stop her. We had a couple of dangerous situations including her falling in front of another horse as she ran through my aid to stop her and she slid at speed round a corner.
I've also just come back from a hack with some friends where somehting in a bush upset her and she went form trot to flat gallop in about three seconds. OK I had a snaffle in but she opened her mouth ,lifted and/or lowered her head (depending on what technique I was trying) and kept going.
(I did go back along same track and walk up and down it til she didn't run off (four goes) and actually saw she'd seen some farm machinary doing loud scary things).
My trainer has taught me to lighten my seat and use my back and weight to stop her when schooling and this works fine, she'll stop frm seat only in the school but when there's more than one horse or something spooks her I have NO control at all.
She's ALWAYS evaded by running through me, when I taught her to canter it was a wall of death situation for several weeks until she became balanced. Wasn't any point doing anything except sitting quietly, taking my weight off her back and waiting for it to get better which, might be the answer to this.
What I'm wondering though is if I should 'gadget her' for a while before this becomes an ingrained 'I'm stronger than you' issue.
In every other way she's fantastic but I want to hunt and event her and I don't want to take her anywhere at speed at the min never mind jump!
The only other thing I;m wondering about is she was raised in a herd of two and has only hacked out with more that two other horses at any speed about half a dozen times in her life and maybe she'll settle if we do lots of slow boring work in a group ( tricky to pursuade ten friends to come for a boring hack)
Ooooooooooh this has got alarmingly long but having written it out my inclination is to decide on a combination of bit/whatever to show her she can't evade this way and then get her into lots of situations where I can safely control here even if things get exciting. Then perhaps begin with cubbing next year...
Blimey, if anyone has got this far and not died of boredom I'd love your opinion. Has anyone owned anything similiar. Did you give up and just take up in hand showing instead!!
I thank you!