Michen
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I have a lovely 13 month old ESS whose always been a little nervous despite being well socialised. This would only really show in meeting new people and dogs where she would be very submissive and a little cautious before reverting back to a waggy spaniel. However she’s always been really happy meeting people in the pub- whoever approaches!
Rightly or wrongly as I’m living alone in a rural area I’ve never corrected her for barking when someone is at the door, she would simply let out a couple and then stop. She would also do this on the yard if somewhere appeared late and we were on our own so the yard was otherwise quiet. Again I didn’t really think much of it.
However she has recently become more and more reactive and I’m unsure what to do. She will bark (unless it’s someone she knows very well) every time a person arrives onto yard or walks past stable (she stays with me in stables whilst I muck them out which I’ve trained her to do as generally it’s a time where horses are being turned out so I like her to be out of the way and in site) etc- just a single bark or maybe two. If someone tries to speak to her she will go up to them barking, but with her tail wagging however clearly in a submissive posture. Then is fine. I have asked people to just ignore her for now but it’s hit and miss.
It’s really strange because she won’t do it in busy high streets, in the feed shop, out walking, out hacking etc she just ignores people entirely (is called in to heel) but no barking.
I have tried a firm no and it simply makes her more anxious, she is an extremely obedient and biddable dog so for her to continue something when she knows it’s not a wanted behaviour is quite poignant. I am mainly keeping her in site at all times now rather than letting her freely potter around, so I can attempt to correct the behaviour through distraction. I am cautious about calling her in too much because I’m worried it’ll make her think there’s reason to be concerned? At the minute I’m trying to distract her e.g throw a glove or brush or whatnot as she’s a super keen retriever, or with some basic commands but this relies on me seeing someone has arrived and getting my timing right before she sees them. This seems to work but doesn’t seem to be helping when I’m not quick enough to find something to throw or when I don’t see someone has appeared around a corner. Maybe just with more time the behaviour will fade away?
I’d really like to get her out of this habit, she absolutely loves pottering around the yard and playing etc but I don’t want her to continue barking any time someone arrives- it’s a busy yard.
I have been reading about the second fear stage and wondering if this is it, but in hindsight I think this has been ramping up for a while and I haven’t been quick enough to stop it.
She has been well socialised and has been on the yard since she was 8 weeks, twice a day, nearly every day!
Another thing I’m considering is borrowing one of my friends spaniels for a while (she’s offered) to build her confidence. But he’s quite unruly ?
Any suggestions gratefully received, feel ive gone wrong somewhere but unsure how to fix it.
Rightly or wrongly as I’m living alone in a rural area I’ve never corrected her for barking when someone is at the door, she would simply let out a couple and then stop. She would also do this on the yard if somewhere appeared late and we were on our own so the yard was otherwise quiet. Again I didn’t really think much of it.
However she has recently become more and more reactive and I’m unsure what to do. She will bark (unless it’s someone she knows very well) every time a person arrives onto yard or walks past stable (she stays with me in stables whilst I muck them out which I’ve trained her to do as generally it’s a time where horses are being turned out so I like her to be out of the way and in site) etc- just a single bark or maybe two. If someone tries to speak to her she will go up to them barking, but with her tail wagging however clearly in a submissive posture. Then is fine. I have asked people to just ignore her for now but it’s hit and miss.
It’s really strange because she won’t do it in busy high streets, in the feed shop, out walking, out hacking etc she just ignores people entirely (is called in to heel) but no barking.
I have tried a firm no and it simply makes her more anxious, she is an extremely obedient and biddable dog so for her to continue something when she knows it’s not a wanted behaviour is quite poignant. I am mainly keeping her in site at all times now rather than letting her freely potter around, so I can attempt to correct the behaviour through distraction. I am cautious about calling her in too much because I’m worried it’ll make her think there’s reason to be concerned? At the minute I’m trying to distract her e.g throw a glove or brush or whatnot as she’s a super keen retriever, or with some basic commands but this relies on me seeing someone has arrived and getting my timing right before she sees them. This seems to work but doesn’t seem to be helping when I’m not quick enough to find something to throw or when I don’t see someone has appeared around a corner. Maybe just with more time the behaviour will fade away?
I’d really like to get her out of this habit, she absolutely loves pottering around the yard and playing etc but I don’t want her to continue barking any time someone arrives- it’s a busy yard.
I have been reading about the second fear stage and wondering if this is it, but in hindsight I think this has been ramping up for a while and I haven’t been quick enough to stop it.
She has been well socialised and has been on the yard since she was 8 weeks, twice a day, nearly every day!
Another thing I’m considering is borrowing one of my friends spaniels for a while (she’s offered) to build her confidence. But he’s quite unruly ?
Any suggestions gratefully received, feel ive gone wrong somewhere but unsure how to fix it.
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