SaddlePsych'D
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A bit cooler here today but the sun is making an appearance so I have a very happy Greyhound gently toasting herself out in the garden.
Fatigue is hanging around although not as bad as last week. Wasn't sure about riding but thought I can always get off if I'm really struggling.
Another great lesson though. All in walk. Not a perfect lesson by any means, it's the progress in my confidence/mindset which I'm really noticing. If I get worried by something (like the horses in the next field running about), I'm much quicker to get my focus back instead of letting it run off to various disaster scenarios. I'm learning to giggle a bit by the horse being a bit nosy at everything and then getting us both 'back in the room'.
Or when Little-not-little Cob has one of his sat nav error moments. For some reason we have a nemesis corner in the arena. Not sure why. He's not spooking I don't think. Just comes in through his inside shoulder and decides we're walking a slightly different way. I'm getting better at pre-empting though and correcting a little quicker. In the past something like that would worry my and I am so much better now at just relaxing, aiming to make the correction, while not getting caught up in various unhelpful thoughts.
I had some nice feedback from my instructor and noticed she kind of sat back a bit this lesson and I rode more independently. Perhaps a sign of my increasing confidence and decreasing likelihood of freaking myself out over nothing
Fatigue is hanging around although not as bad as last week. Wasn't sure about riding but thought I can always get off if I'm really struggling.
Another great lesson though. All in walk. Not a perfect lesson by any means, it's the progress in my confidence/mindset which I'm really noticing. If I get worried by something (like the horses in the next field running about), I'm much quicker to get my focus back instead of letting it run off to various disaster scenarios. I'm learning to giggle a bit by the horse being a bit nosy at everything and then getting us both 'back in the room'.
Or when Little-not-little Cob has one of his sat nav error moments. For some reason we have a nemesis corner in the arena. Not sure why. He's not spooking I don't think. Just comes in through his inside shoulder and decides we're walking a slightly different way. I'm getting better at pre-empting though and correcting a little quicker. In the past something like that would worry my and I am so much better now at just relaxing, aiming to make the correction, while not getting caught up in various unhelpful thoughts.
I had some nice feedback from my instructor and noticed she kind of sat back a bit this lesson and I rode more independently. Perhaps a sign of my increasing confidence and decreasing likelihood of freaking myself out over nothing





