Serious Kick up the backside required please

[CaleruxShearer]

Someone give me a talking to. I'm just put Shearer's ad online but I'm in tears

I will be so so upset when he goes but unfortunatley having two just isnt an option. I've outgrown him and my dreams are much, much bigger than his

 

[SVMel]

Give yourself a break.
Its so hard, and all power to you for making a tough decision It will feel worse as you go through the stages, but ultimately will get better eventually. You are doing it for the sake of both your horses and for you and if its right then its right.

No kicking needed, don't beat yourself up.

xxxxxx

 

[NeverSayNever]

awww, lets see a link to your ad ?

i really sympathise 100% as i am in the same situation. have you found something else yet? ive found it more bearable going out and trying lots of others... good luck anyway.

 

[CaleruxShearer]

Nope, not going out and trying others yet as I just see ones that I really like but we can't do anything until S has gone, will pm you the link as I would be advertising if I post it on here.

 

[Echo Bravo]

Stop beating your self up. somebody out there will suit him. Not everyone wants to compete at high standard, just to enjoy themselves.