exracehorse
Well-Known Member
I’m sorry. It sounds horrendous. And after nearly 5 years of this behaviour, which is clearly getting worse, then I’d be pulling the plug. I had issues with an ex racer who was similar to you. Summer was ok ish, winter was awful. And behaviour under saddle was dangerous. He was on every calmer under the sun. And was scouped clear. I think he either had some sort of brain tumour or was literally having a mental breakdown. It affected me as well, I dreaded the bringing in. The trashed fields. It was a miserable partnership. I called it a day in the end. And had him shot. When I then got my next horse Indy, it was such a relief to have a normal horse.Unfortunately turning him out in a herd or with another horse makes him worse. This yard is wonderful and the only yard that has accepted him for who he is, the liveries don’t complain about his issues and they treat him as an individual.
In summer he was absolutely fine with the individual turn out and would come in to the barn happily on his own.
Come winter….its a whole different story. The paddocks are smaller and they are out for less time but he is actually much happier in than out.
I agree that he can’t compete like this and I agree that I cannot find a loaner even if kept at his current yard.
He is a very unhappy, stressed out horse and yes, he will become a danger to himself if I cannot help him.
4.5 years of this is a lot for any horse owner to deal with and deal with and try to help him I have as I adore him.