EMC
Well-Known Member
I've been thinking long and hard and am now looking at having my ex-racehorse sent away for professional schooling, I've done the 'chilling' work but now it is time for him to learn properly and sadly I don't have the expertise to do this as thoroughly as I'd like.
He is going away for 4 weeks + on schooling livery, obviously this isn't long enough to work wonders but it should give me an indication of whether he will be want I want in the long run and if changes can be made to his behaviour. I love this horse and in the grand scheme of things he is doing well, but I'd have been much better of buying a 'been there, done it all' schoolmaster instead of falling in love with my ride at the racing yard.
Whilst finances are an issue he certainly doesn't go without (to the tune of about £500 pcm at the minute...livery,best feed I can afford, tack etc), but the main reason is I am just not enjoying horse ownership anymore and the strain is beginning to show. We seem to be taking huge leaps only to have huge setbacks, and I wonder if I am just asking too much of him and myself. My physio has asked me to stop riding lest I injure my neck further and after a spooky hack at the weekend I spent monday in bed not being able to move, is it really worth it?
My partner supports me but he has watched me go from chomping at the bit to dreading going to the yard for both the politics and whatever else will happen. He has given me the 'you have to put yourself first, you are stressed out 24/7' ultimatum.....and the added 'you could always go back to bike racing, so much easier!'
So....once our four weeks is up (hopefully longer if I can afford it) I will have a hard decision to make.....do I sell or do I continue to spend a fortune and keep going? I like some advice as to where the best place to advertise would be? I don't want him falling into the hands of a novice or a home that will not care for him properly but obviously he has not done a great deal and so I couldn't ask much for him. I've spoken to re-homing charities and they are all full.
What would you advise?
He is going away for 4 weeks + on schooling livery, obviously this isn't long enough to work wonders but it should give me an indication of whether he will be want I want in the long run and if changes can be made to his behaviour. I love this horse and in the grand scheme of things he is doing well, but I'd have been much better of buying a 'been there, done it all' schoolmaster instead of falling in love with my ride at the racing yard.
Whilst finances are an issue he certainly doesn't go without (to the tune of about £500 pcm at the minute...livery,best feed I can afford, tack etc), but the main reason is I am just not enjoying horse ownership anymore and the strain is beginning to show. We seem to be taking huge leaps only to have huge setbacks, and I wonder if I am just asking too much of him and myself. My physio has asked me to stop riding lest I injure my neck further and after a spooky hack at the weekend I spent monday in bed not being able to move, is it really worth it?
My partner supports me but he has watched me go from chomping at the bit to dreading going to the yard for both the politics and whatever else will happen. He has given me the 'you have to put yourself first, you are stressed out 24/7' ultimatum.....and the added 'you could always go back to bike racing, so much easier!'
So....once our four weeks is up (hopefully longer if I can afford it) I will have a hard decision to make.....do I sell or do I continue to spend a fortune and keep going? I like some advice as to where the best place to advertise would be? I don't want him falling into the hands of a novice or a home that will not care for him properly but obviously he has not done a great deal and so I couldn't ask much for him. I've spoken to re-homing charities and they are all full.
What would you advise?