bertin12
Well-Known Member
Looking for a bit of advice really..
I've been at my current yard for probably 4 years now. It's no where near the most 'posh' of yards, stables etc are old and bit tatty but fine, but the school is lovely. It's very much a diy yard when it comes to managing your fields, fencing, water & anything else.
It's not a massive yard, max about 15 horses, which I like as I'm naturally a quiet/ shy person so it's nice to get to know few people.
However, I am the youngest there (22) but there are some people who treat me like a kid or talk to me like I've never had a horse in my life & can be patronising. Normally I don't really care but I'm picking up on it more and it's bothering me. It's in no way intentionally meant to be horrible. I've got one really good friend there who I've known for years and we help each other out a lot which is one reason I've not left, but kind of try to avoid everyone else to avoid comments.
I don't know if I should have a look at moving though. There aren't that many small yards around me and where I am now is so convenient as its only 10 mins from home and work, and like I said I'm naturally a very shy person so moving to somewhere new on my own is a bit scary!
If anyone has been in a similar position I'd love to hear experiences
I've been at my current yard for probably 4 years now. It's no where near the most 'posh' of yards, stables etc are old and bit tatty but fine, but the school is lovely. It's very much a diy yard when it comes to managing your fields, fencing, water & anything else.
It's not a massive yard, max about 15 horses, which I like as I'm naturally a quiet/ shy person so it's nice to get to know few people.
However, I am the youngest there (22) but there are some people who treat me like a kid or talk to me like I've never had a horse in my life & can be patronising. Normally I don't really care but I'm picking up on it more and it's bothering me. It's in no way intentionally meant to be horrible. I've got one really good friend there who I've known for years and we help each other out a lot which is one reason I've not left, but kind of try to avoid everyone else to avoid comments.
I don't know if I should have a look at moving though. There aren't that many small yards around me and where I am now is so convenient as its only 10 mins from home and work, and like I said I'm naturally a very shy person so moving to somewhere new on my own is a bit scary!
If anyone has been in a similar position I'd love to hear experiences