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I still disagree - what ever happened to letting a horse settle - when I moved to my current yard my horse was unsettled, became very attached to the herd and in one incident he barged out his stable, down a long drive and along a road to get back to the field. He was also unsettled on his first solo hacks. So we took it slow and within a couple of weeks I had my bombproof hack back.
Horses are not machines - they are allowed to show fear and it seems that at the moment the rider isn't sure how to cope but that doesn't mean with a bit of time things will settle.
No offence to you op but I've also seen novice riders describing their horse as having bolted when they've done no such thing - it's just felt that way. Is your husband balanced enough to cope with a napping horse? That may have contributed to the situation and getting some lessons in an arena to improve balance could help. Apologies if that's not the case - I'm just going on the limited info available. I do hope he recovers quickly though!
I have had many horses through my yard over the years, most settle in quickly if they are genuinely experienced in life and novice rides, there are always a few minor issues which need addressing which is why I think getting help will for the OP be the best step forward, the OP is inexperienced is trying to cope with a big possibly ignorant horse, I agree it is probably not bolting but even tanking off is not acceptable. Why not get some help from an experienced person rather than continue alone, there is no shame in getting help and it will give the horse a chance to come right.
They are not machines but should not take flight whenever they get scared, the flight instinct needs to be controlled, a novice is not going to have the tools to deal with a horse whose first instinct is to run away, which is why some training for horse and rider is required, we all need help sometimes.