frostyfingers
Well-Known Member
I count myself as an experienced, pretty fearless and capable rider and owner but over the last few months have had to rethink my opinion and seek help! I bought a new horse in December from a busy hunting yard, previously he had been eventing and have spent the last few months sorting both of us out. As someone mentioned upthread he's used to being in a crowd and is a fab hunter but is deeply insecure on his own. I have a companion pony and that's it so it's been a big change for him and we are slowly getting there but even now hacking alone is "interesting". He's not actively naughty as such, just unsure of himself and reacts by whipping round and half rearing, but with help and patience is learning that he's safe out in the big bad world on his own. He does not respect me on the ground (yet) and it more than happy to tow me around or half rear if he doesn't fancy doing something. I have help with this and am confident it will be sorted but there have been times when I've asked myself what the hell am I doing, and when I've been frightened of him.
My point is that if I were a novice/beginner he would have scared me sideways, quite possibly dumped me and trodden on me and hurt me - no way would I be keeping him, no matter how much I love him. The person helping me said that we must never forget that being around horses can be incredibly dangerous and you can get seriously hurt. Owning horses is meant to be fun.
My point is that if I were a novice/beginner he would have scared me sideways, quite possibly dumped me and trodden on me and hurt me - no way would I be keeping him, no matter how much I love him. The person helping me said that we must never forget that being around horses can be incredibly dangerous and you can get seriously hurt. Owning horses is meant to be fun.