Doormouse
Well-Known Member
As long as you don't have to do any steering then there is no shame in holding the front of your saddle to start with just until you are feeling more secure. When little children are learning to ride they often do that and it seems hard on people who start learning when they are older that it is frowned on for them! Even when you have got the reins to worry about as well you can still put 1 or 2 fingers under the front of the saddle as you go into sitting trot to reasure you. I have been riding for 32 years and I still do that sometimes when I'm riding a very sensitive horse and am asking for canter. No shame at all, and it saves any hanging on to their mouths. I also find going floppy very helpful but that requires a bit of confidence to start with. Good luck, you will get it.