bamboozle
Well-Known Member
ok - hope your comfy!! may be a long one! went showjumping today, aiming to do the 3'3 then 3'6, but arrived late and got there just in time for the 3'6, thought i may as well go for it, thought it might do us good to be thrown in at the deep-end - and it wasnt very big. he jumped really really well, and we had an unfortunate pole down, because he just ran through my hand a little on a related distance. but over all very well. so after that pleasing round, i entered the 3'9, thinking whats the worst that can happen. he warmed up perfectly, and we went in. he did an absolutely FILTHY stop at the first fence - hes a little green, and always needs a huge amount of contact. i came to the first fence, and was on a bit of a long one, and ive been working on not flapping around and kicking to get him there, but to just sit up - so i did, and he put down - he has a tendancy to do this, and just doesnt think for himself. so after approaching again - with masses of contact, and sitting up with masses of leg on!! we got over - not particularly pretty though - jumped 2nd and third fine, came round the the fouth off a corner, and he totally dropped the contact, and sat behind the bit, hes found that if he sits behind the bit, he can get away from me - so we had another stop. then really got his head up and in a very interesting style, managed to finish, with 2 down, and 2 stops.
he has always been like this, and we have seriously thought about selling about 2 months ago - his temperment just isnt good enough. i want to be doing Novice by june, and hes got all the ability, but just not got the brains. this was bought up by my instructor, who knows him, and says although we have learnt a huge amount together, hes never going to have the brains, or temprament to go above novice - hes so sensitive, and so clever - instuctor says hes just keeping me back now and i need something that will take me places. ive learnt a huge amount with this loevly horse, taught him such a lot, and had such fun with him, that i dont want to sell, but because i want to try and work with horses in the future, is it worth wasting these valuable years when i can go eventing (im 17) on a horse thats not going to do what i want it to do?!?
What do you all think i should do???!!!
he has always been like this, and we have seriously thought about selling about 2 months ago - his temperment just isnt good enough. i want to be doing Novice by june, and hes got all the ability, but just not got the brains. this was bought up by my instructor, who knows him, and says although we have learnt a huge amount together, hes never going to have the brains, or temprament to go above novice - hes so sensitive, and so clever - instuctor says hes just keeping me back now and i need something that will take me places. ive learnt a huge amount with this loevly horse, taught him such a lot, and had such fun with him, that i dont want to sell, but because i want to try and work with horses in the future, is it worth wasting these valuable years when i can go eventing (im 17) on a horse thats not going to do what i want it to do?!?
What do you all think i should do???!!!