Urban Horse
Well-Known Member
seriously?!? a tap with a whip that doesn't hurt me when I do it is 'borderline threat of violence' and funnily enough I used it Friday and yesterday he walked in and out perfectly as he knew what was expected of him.
I was once told (and I have never forgotten this) a horse is asked to work one or two hours a day, for that time they should behave the other 20 odd hours of the day is there time, you pay a lot to keep them and work many more hours to do so. You aren't asking a lot of them. But they have to be taught what is right and what isn't other wise they will never learn, being dragged by half a ton isn't fun and can seriously injury someone.
fwiw I was smacked as a child and don't live in fear of my parents as I now know how I should behave as I was taught!!
So you used it twice.... perhaps it's not as effective as some other methods. It's a strange world horsemanship, were we working with other animals we'd be prosecuted by the authorities for whipping a dog or cat, yet in equestrianism it's an accepted practice.
Horses of course have no understanding of how much it costs to keep them, nor can they reason that they have to behave in an acceptable manner for so many hours in return for their keep... their mental processes simply don't work like that, so whoever told you that was speaking from an entirely human point of view.
When you were smacked as a child, you were still a human being with human powers of reasoning... you knew, or it was explained to you, what the punishment was for. Even those 'stars' who are currently on trial for 'abuses' many years ago (whether they are guilty or innocent is not my point here) know why they are on trial, even though the allegations concern incidents that happened ages ago... Horses do not have the luxury of associating puishment with reasons that happened in the past, which is why for it to be effective it must be well timed... and sadly, timing is something a lot of humans simply don't have.