EAST KENT
Well-Known Member
A year ago I spotted an ad for someone very nearby wanting a quiet horse on loan I answered it ,but said mine was not so much "on loan" but she could hack her out a few times a week.The young woman said she`d "go half" on the shoes,and help buy a new heavyweight turn out for this winter past. Ok ,the mare benefits from exercise..she has a bone spavin so it keeps her "oiled up".
In a year I have had just £20 out of her for shoes,had to ask for simple things like washing the bit after riding to be done,the tack has never been tended by anyone but me. The mare now needs clipping and trimming..I have no time just now..she says she cannot afford to pay out .Therefore the mare stays home,being a bit of a Pony Club fogey I believe it is an insult to take a horse out looking anything but clean and neat.Then ,she asked the other day if she could move MY mare up to a paddock she has free use of and she would then take over the expenses! Frankly I was speechless,after a year of "can`t afford it" she now seems to think she can in fact afford if she gets possession.
Would you tell her to "trot on"?
In a year I have had just £20 out of her for shoes,had to ask for simple things like washing the bit after riding to be done,the tack has never been tended by anyone but me. The mare now needs clipping and trimming..I have no time just now..she says she cannot afford to pay out .Therefore the mare stays home,being a bit of a Pony Club fogey I believe it is an insult to take a horse out looking anything but clean and neat.Then ,she asked the other day if she could move MY mare up to a paddock she has free use of and she would then take over the expenses! Frankly I was speechless,after a year of "can`t afford it" she now seems to think she can in fact afford if she gets possession.
Would you tell her to "trot on"?