canteron
Well-Known Member
I have read thread after thread on here of people saying that they loaned their horse and 'shock horror' it has gone wrong. Horse has been mistreaded/sold on/what ever.
Without being too judgemental (OK I am) I can't help but feel that the many loaners are just a) just trying to dump a problem and using hope over logic b)lazy over not doing their due diligence before loaning.
So, for whatever reason, your horse is no longer convenient (money, health, desire, whatever). 'Nice' person (how difficult is it to be 'nice' for just a little bit) comes along and relieves you of a problem and you don't do checks????
I would ask
a) Who is your vet - and check with them they are reigstered and for how long.
b) Are you employed - and check they are employed and have been for a bit
c) Who is your farrier/your childs pony club/equine dentist
d) What is your family circumstance and are they on board - and interview family
e) Take a passport copy - you are after all passing on something of value, hotels do it for a measly hotel bill.
If there wasn't any continuity anywhere, the horse wouldn't go there - and if they weren't willing to divulge information, then alarm bell would ring Big Time.
So, I loaned my horse and wasn't 100%, so I got to know boyfriend (unwilling horse owner) and got so close that when it went wrong, I was the first to know - I learnt where he drank, who his buddies where and so when it went wrong (as as some point in 80pc of loaning cases do) I was the first to know. After all, he didn't want to dump 'buddies' in it!
So, it is difficult and uncomfortable to ask these questions, but easier than crying over spilt milk later????
And if you ask all these questions - and check them - then you can truly say you did all you could?
Without being too judgemental (OK I am) I can't help but feel that the many loaners are just a) just trying to dump a problem and using hope over logic b)lazy over not doing their due diligence before loaning.
So, for whatever reason, your horse is no longer convenient (money, health, desire, whatever). 'Nice' person (how difficult is it to be 'nice' for just a little bit) comes along and relieves you of a problem and you don't do checks????
I would ask
a) Who is your vet - and check with them they are reigstered and for how long.
b) Are you employed - and check they are employed and have been for a bit
c) Who is your farrier/your childs pony club/equine dentist
d) What is your family circumstance and are they on board - and interview family
e) Take a passport copy - you are after all passing on something of value, hotels do it for a measly hotel bill.
If there wasn't any continuity anywhere, the horse wouldn't go there - and if they weren't willing to divulge information, then alarm bell would ring Big Time.
So, I loaned my horse and wasn't 100%, so I got to know boyfriend (unwilling horse owner) and got so close that when it went wrong, I was the first to know - I learnt where he drank, who his buddies where and so when it went wrong (as as some point in 80pc of loaning cases do) I was the first to know. After all, he didn't want to dump 'buddies' in it!
So, it is difficult and uncomfortable to ask these questions, but easier than crying over spilt milk later????
And if you ask all these questions - and check them - then you can truly say you did all you could?