Some advice for a newbie please.

birdof1977

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Morning to all.

As you can see, I am fairly new to this site and would value some advice please.

I recently started riding again after an 8 year break. I have been having lessons at a local RS, but it just isn't the same as having your own horse. I love riding, but I miss the rest of the stuff involved, ie. mucking out, poo fights at the muck heap, general chatter at the yard, watching the horses you care for improve and grow, the smell of saddle soap, you know the general day to day stuff.
It's just not the same, you turn up for your lesson, your horse is already tacked up for you and then you have your lesson. I do get to untack and rub down after, but only because the time I go is the last lesson of the day, and because I offered to do this.
The other thing is, I always seem to get a different horse every time I go, which means that you can't build any kind of bond or trust with them.

I was considering asking my RS if they needed any helpers. I don't want any pay, not even a reduced rate for riding. Do you think that they would go for this?

I don't have loads of spare time, but could do a couple of week days (school hours) and probably sundays.
I have only been going there for about a month, and I don't want them to think that I am pushy or anything. Like I said at the beggining, it's been a while since I was involved in the horsey world and am not sure how things have changed. My general yard skills are probably quite rusty too, but I can still remember how to do things, just need the chance to do them.

I am looking to get my own horse again in a year or two, and I don't want to make a complete hash of it by not being confident enough to care for it proplerly.

Anyway I geuss what I'm really getting at is, do you think that I should ask the RS if I could help out there, or do you think that I should leave it a bit longer?
I thought that now might be a good time as the summer holidays are nearly over, and all of their helpers that are still at school/college will be gone soon.

Please help!
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I think you should ask and they will probably be glad of the help
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Deffinately! I am a manager at a riding school and we have quite a few clients who help out on a regular basis and we really appreciate it - especialy in the winter
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I think its a very good idea. You get to do what you love and they will get the help that they need esp in the winter.
 

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Thanks guy's for the input.
I did think that the winter thing might be an advantage for me. Wet and cold weather doesn't bother me.

I am taking my kid's up there tomorrow for their lesson, so I might see if anyone is around then that I can ask.

I'll let you know how it goes.
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Can't do any harm to ask can it? Also once they get to know you and you them, you might feel more confident about asking them about having the same horse each lesson too.

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Good point, I suppose the worse they can do is say no. They seem like a really nice lot there though, all really freindly. Even my extremely shy 8 year old speaks to the adults up there, something that is practically unheard of for him.

Thanks for all the great support you guy's. What a nice bunch of people you all are.
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Maybe you could ask for the same horse for every lesson.

My instructor always puts me on one of two horses because I have bonded with those two so well.
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I would ask to help if you want to. I am sure they would be more than glad to accept
 

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Do ask, definately.

Also have you thought about sharing?

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I have thought about sharing and have been looking, but there just isn't anything really in my area, I'm such a sad sack with no driving license yet (and I,m 31
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), so I have to rely on either my bike or walking, my OH gives me lifts now and then, but he works long hours and does a lot of driving, so I don't like to keep asking him.
Also worried that sharer might think me incapable after 8 years off. The last horse I had started off as a share and ended up as a full loan, but that was nearly 10 years ago, and in a different part of the country, I don't really know anyone horsey around my way.
I'll just have to keep my eye's peeled I guess.
Thought that helping at the RS might also lead to making a few contacts as they do have Livery there too, plus I could maybe brush up on a few skills. Oh well fingers crossed. I think I'm definetly gonna ask them tommorrow.
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I'd think most riding schools would love adult helpers!

Also, why not look up a local RDA centre. Many of the smaller ones are always desperate for helpers to no just help with the lessons but care for the horses too.
 
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