Guylian
Well-Known Member
Pretty sure there is something wrong with me lately :/ I've been getting upset about the most random things and feeling like I'm not fit to be looking after this horse
When ever people see me doing something wrong they go straight to the YM, it makes me feel like I'm doing really terrible things, but it's just silly things like putting the muck on the wrong side of the muck heap. It's really scary having to be spoken to by the YM, makes me feel like a naughty child I guess they feel that knowing me for 2 months isn't long enough to tell me things are wrong? Which is fair enough - who knows they might think I'd lose my rag at them or something? I don't feel like my riding is getting any better, I'm still learning to trot, (I've been learning to ride for something like 6 months) and I feel so unstable and unbalanced, I'm really scared about riding on my own. Not to mention I find tacking up really hard, not sure if it's because I'm new to it or just because I'm so short I can't put the saddle on by myself (although I can put the bridle on now), and I can't open the tack room lock or close it - I'm totally useless. The people there are really kind and don't seem to mind helping me tack up or close the tack room door (and I'm lucky the YM doesn't get angry at me), but it's so embarrassing.
I'm getting really stressed out with myself and I realise that I was stupid thinking I could get everything right with my first horse - I'm just so stressed with my stupid mistakes and not being able to do things on my own, I can't believe it but I cried about it yesterday in the tack room Please snap me out of this I'm being way to emotional over this
Thanks if you read that I'm pretty sure it's because my depo ran out I hate being emotional like this especially when I know I shouldn't be. (sorry if that was hard to read, I missed a lot of punctuation lol)
When ever people see me doing something wrong they go straight to the YM, it makes me feel like I'm doing really terrible things, but it's just silly things like putting the muck on the wrong side of the muck heap. It's really scary having to be spoken to by the YM, makes me feel like a naughty child I guess they feel that knowing me for 2 months isn't long enough to tell me things are wrong? Which is fair enough - who knows they might think I'd lose my rag at them or something? I don't feel like my riding is getting any better, I'm still learning to trot, (I've been learning to ride for something like 6 months) and I feel so unstable and unbalanced, I'm really scared about riding on my own. Not to mention I find tacking up really hard, not sure if it's because I'm new to it or just because I'm so short I can't put the saddle on by myself (although I can put the bridle on now), and I can't open the tack room lock or close it - I'm totally useless. The people there are really kind and don't seem to mind helping me tack up or close the tack room door (and I'm lucky the YM doesn't get angry at me), but it's so embarrassing.
I'm getting really stressed out with myself and I realise that I was stupid thinking I could get everything right with my first horse - I'm just so stressed with my stupid mistakes and not being able to do things on my own, I can't believe it but I cried about it yesterday in the tack room Please snap me out of this I'm being way to emotional over this
Thanks if you read that I'm pretty sure it's because my depo ran out I hate being emotional like this especially when I know I shouldn't be. (sorry if that was hard to read, I missed a lot of punctuation lol)