Sorry, to those i have offended!

Horsey_Gal

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Ok, my last post was v confusing, i just read it through and yes i really need paragraphs and yes it does come across as though i am spoilt. I am a genuine user on here, i do have horses, that i adore.
The situation with my Dad, i think it's better if i leave it as to get the full picture, i would be writing for hours and would get confusing but i would just like to say i was not in debt, i did not just leave my horse either, as i say i did not explain it very well and quite a few got the wrong end of the stick.

Maybe in my other posts i should have explained step-dad, not my biological dad, also, the fact i have more than one horse and that they aren't at the same yard. Yes, my priority is my horses, they always come 1st, i make sure i give them anything they need plus extra treats every now and then
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I was quite upset by the words some users on here called me, i was never a spoilt brat, i never 'got' what i wanted, i worked from the age of 13 and paid my way for my ponies plus did all the work myself after school and before school.

I've never had a good relationship with my father which made it even worse when he had an affair. It still upsets me to this day, but he has done so many things in the past which i think are terrible and perhaps inforgivable to
myself/brother/mother which i shall not go into.

Just wanted to try and clear it up with everyone!
 
Hey ,don't beat yourself up . I always believe a parent is for life and your elders should be there for you and teach you by example. I think he has tried tio buy you by presents in the past, move on ,your life is in your hands , work hard and enjoy what you earn for yourself.
It is his loss but don't look back ,wish him well and get on with your life it is too short to regret and blame.
Don't apologise, things are soon forgotten on here.
Any problems you have were caused by your bad parenting but move on
 
Grammar mistake on my part, unforgivable i meant!

Thanks - just didn't want a bad name for myself (even though i prabably have now) as i am a genuine horse lover on here and dont want people to think i am taking the p***, i just need to explain better i think!!
 
Only you can know the full background to your story - I reckon if you posted long snippets on here every day for a month we still wouldn't have touched the sides - family stuff is just SO complicated! Good luck with everything anyway - and I wouldn't worry about offending people on here too much - we are pretty stoic for the most part
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Well done for posting again and for re-reading your original post and taking on board the comments that were made. I wish you all the luck in the world sorting things out, and I particularly felt that if you can grit your teeth and be nice to the gf, then you may find life an awful lot easier!
 
It's hard as i can't stand her but i guess that is going to be the best way. I was always friendly towards her until she got jealous of my horse coming onto the yard that she turned on me and i nearly ended up in A&E! families 4 ya... Lol!!
 
As a step mother myself, i know how hard relationships can be with step daughters! but for the sake of peace i also try really hard to get on with my Husbands daughter for his sake, more than anything, its very hard when someone has to play piggy in the middle, your dad will thank you for it and it could help your problems no end. There must be a reason that she dislikes you, try to analize why and work on it.
 
Hey horsey gal, Dont worry about it, just focus on making things right with your Dad, Family is far more important than horses, maybe even try to patch things up with his girlfriend as I am sure its breaking your Dads heart you two not getting along.

I have replied to a few of your posts about you OH's kids, I am just wondering are you 17 with a 28 year old boyf? Just curious as looking at your past posts I wondered if this was the case.
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Just read you post from last night, and I'd just like to say I hop you manage to work things out. I haven't had a very good relationship with my Dad for many years but recently we have become quite close.
If I were you I'd be round there trying to build bridges with him and your step mother.
Good luck
 
Horsey- gal
I have spent time trying to understand and respond to some of your posts. Having read this

http://www.horseandhound.co.uk/forums/sh...rue#Post2377019

and this-
http://www.horseandhound.co.uk/forums/sh...rue#Post2443788

along with other posts its quite clear you infact are the 17 yr old going out with a 28 yr old.
I would happily try to help anyone and I do sympathise with you as you seem to want attention however I wont be responding to anything else you post as I suspect we are only getting half truths most of the time or some third person you are referring to is infact you!
 
Right Horsey_Gal you say you aren't snobby or stuck up!!?? and you are ashamed that this BF lives on a council est!
I live on a council est private rent, ive been here for 3 years, but before that i lived in the next town in a 3 bed end of terraced house and before that i lived in a bungalow est with my mum. All the places have different types of people!
Theres lots of nice people on the est and im not a rough person just to clarify!
YOU'RE A SNOTTY, SMALL MINDED PERSON!!

No wonder you're dads GF doesn't like you!!!!
 
Nope im pi$$ed off!
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ive had enough of OH but cant get rid of him!
He loves me too much blaa blaaa blaaaaa
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Horses are so much easier!
 
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