Stay or go ?

[ace123]

Right.
At present my daughters and myself are on a farm with 5 other liveries. We have 5 acre field and stables. Awful fencing.

Farmer loves barbed wire so i have to put electric fencing in front. No other facilities. We're on a horrible road as well. ( lots of bends and fast traffic )
I share the field with another lady. She's very pleasant BUT she started asking for lifts to farm and now expects me to pick her up every morning and evening. If i can't for some reason she sulks. She wants me to let her know when ever i'm going down so she can come. She won't ever go on her own. She moans if i bring mine in at all as she doesn't like mucking out or going down early.
Another girl is always helping herself to our feed, hay brushes, fly spray ect.

I have moaned but she just gets upset and say she can't afford her own stuff. ( shouldn't have a horse then ) She also wants lifts every day or she will ask me to do her horse.
I've always enjoyed my horses but i'm not at the moment

NOW
I've found a field

5 acres, post and rail fencing

fenced into 3 paddocks. Its very flat so can be ridden in. Has a lovely double shelter. Quieter road and near bridle way on woods.

Its takes 15 mins to drive there.
What would you do ?
Do we stay or do we go

I worry about upsetting people but i'm fed up with be taken for a mug...

 

[Ellies_mum2]

No contest I'm afraid. I would move in asap.

Horses are too flipping expensive not to enjoy and you are most definitely not enjoying yours at the moment.

How on earth did the others manage before you arrived?

They will manage in the same way once you have left

Good luck

 

[Persephone]

No brainer IMO. Go!

 

[abracadabra]

god get packing your stuff!

 

[samstar]

I would definately move, you don't stay because it might upset peple, you've got to do whats right for you and your horses and the new place sounds lovely and it has everything you want.

GO FOR IT

 

[gumpatrump]

Def GO, second place sounds very nice and if you are not enjoying your horses where they are then you should move. Don't worry about other people, they will get over it!

 

[Piccy]

I would be gone.., hope all goes well

 

[samstar]

welcome newbie piccy

 

[Bills]

Yup, no question, get out of there and enjoy your horses!!

 

[ace123]

Thanks guys.

I know your all right.
I'm not enjoying it at the moment. Neither is my daughter as i'm always stressed.

My friend says i need to move before i go mad and she will help. So transport is sorted. I just need to bite the bullet now.

 

[dawnpetenathshir]

Why aren't you there already? Go, go, go

 

[ladyearl]

Go and don't look back.

 

[AmyMay]

Move asap.

 

[Hippona]

I'll pop round and pack your stuff for you.....get gone girl, and don't look over your shoulder......

 

[4leggedfurries]

GO, GO, GO!!!! No brainer really! Best of luck.

 

[fatpiggy]

Why are you even asking? Don't wait, or someone else will grab it.

 

[miss_c]

Definately move!!! I would be out as soon as possible! Mind you, I'd also be very tempted to be rather rude to the girl who keeps taking stuff because she can't afford her own....