fine_and_dandy
Well-Known Member
Ok, don't really know where to begin with this - it's likely that it will be a random flow of things that have gone on so apologies.
To cut a long story short, I am really questioning my ability at owning a pony. I feel that whatever it is I do is never good enough and that it must be blatantly obvious to all around me. I am trying so hard, i get help from my instructor and a couple of people i really trust on my yard, but I feel completely hopeless when they aren't around. It seems to me that there is always someone around ready to pass judgement and its really deflating me atm. It also feels with my pony atm that theres no give and take just take take take. I don't let him get into bad habits, i think I am firm but fair with him but it feels like I am going 2 steps forward and 20 steps back. This is my first time owning and I have looked after other people's horses full time before, so I knew what I was letting myself in for. I have a friend who got her first pony last year and I look at them and see how far they have come and they are progressing in leaps and bounds, which is ace to see but makes me think about how useless I feel.
Sorry, and well done if you got this far. No one really seems to understand my predicament. Feeling very blah
To cut a long story short, I am really questioning my ability at owning a pony. I feel that whatever it is I do is never good enough and that it must be blatantly obvious to all around me. I am trying so hard, i get help from my instructor and a couple of people i really trust on my yard, but I feel completely hopeless when they aren't around. It seems to me that there is always someone around ready to pass judgement and its really deflating me atm. It also feels with my pony atm that theres no give and take just take take take. I don't let him get into bad habits, i think I am firm but fair with him but it feels like I am going 2 steps forward and 20 steps back. This is my first time owning and I have looked after other people's horses full time before, so I knew what I was letting myself in for. I have a friend who got her first pony last year and I look at them and see how far they have come and they are progressing in leaps and bounds, which is ace to see but makes me think about how useless I feel.
Sorry, and well done if you got this far. No one really seems to understand my predicament. Feeling very blah