B&J
Well-Known Member
Ok so I bought my husband a novice ride cob. Shes great but had the winter off with previous owner and is a little unbalanced in the school. She is too small for me to ride so I can only work with her on the lunge.
My husband rode as a kid but is essentially a total novice again BUT he wont listen to me at all, he is also unbalanced so the two together are very unbalanced. I have tried giving him pointers in the school, had a friend show him on her so he could watch, suggested lessons with my instructor, offered to lunge whilst he is on her so he can concentrate on his positioning, friends have offered to school her but he wont agree to any of it He just wants to find the answer on his own, in his own time
I am concerned that without proper schooling the horse will get worse, especially with an unbalanced rider but what can I do??? Any ideas to either school her from the ground or ways round the husband (I know its practically impossible without knowing the person or the horse)! Maybe focus on hacking for a while? Or should I back off and let him get on with it the hard way? Im at a total loss here!
My husband rode as a kid but is essentially a total novice again BUT he wont listen to me at all, he is also unbalanced so the two together are very unbalanced. I have tried giving him pointers in the school, had a friend show him on her so he could watch, suggested lessons with my instructor, offered to lunge whilst he is on her so he can concentrate on his positioning, friends have offered to school her but he wont agree to any of it He just wants to find the answer on his own, in his own time
I am concerned that without proper schooling the horse will get worse, especially with an unbalanced rider but what can I do??? Any ideas to either school her from the ground or ways round the husband (I know its practically impossible without knowing the person or the horse)! Maybe focus on hacking for a while? Or should I back off and let him get on with it the hard way? Im at a total loss here!